Hello all,

I'm new to pheromones and would like some advice and guidance on a few things if possible.

I'm married, and like quite a few posters here, want my sex life spiced up!

I know about all the usual giving her compliments/taking her out/making her feel special etc., all of which I have done! Unfortunately it rarely works! However, we do have sex regularly but I would like the tables turned so that she initiates it (I've looked with GREAT interest at the I'M SO WET thread!!)

So far I've tried New Pheromone Additive with no results that I can see apart from maybe she's a bit more aggressive - would that be possible? I've also tried to ramp up by applying before bed and after showering for a few days as per the thread about the cumulative effect of New Pheromone Additive. So far, no extra interest in sex.

I've also tried IMPI Red, also with no results at all.

I realise that not everyone is affected by them, is it possible that she's just not affected by ANY pheromone or would I be better changing tack and trying a social for example?

My next would be for work, I'm thinking Wolf would be a good place to start. I'm fairly high up in the company I work for and well respected in general but one or two of the senior managers think I'm a trouble maker (I'm not, just doing my job and keeping my passengers safe!). Would Wolf work in this scenario or would A314 be better or possibly a mix? Wolf kind of makes sense to get them 'on side' so to speak, but any advice is welcome.

Thanks in advance!

I'm in your boat, and know what you're going through. My wife has initiated ONCE our entire relationship, and it was during the first 3 months of our now 7 year relationship.

Sexuals have zero effect on her. Zip. Other pheromones, like status 'mones, do increase her willingness/wanting to please - so it's not like she's just a non-responder. Comfort 'mones even make her lovey-dovey - but no interest in sex so that she initiates.

Has your wife been on birth control chronically? Mine has, since 14 years of age. I'm convinced her lack of libido has something to do with it. She's on an IUD called the Mirena now, but it affects her too.

Thanks RT,

Actually, yes she was on long term contraception, I'd say about 18 years or so. Last year I had the snip (ouch!) and she stopped but it didn't help, which I was a little surprised about.

I don't mind trying a few things out to see if they work. I've ordered the ACE oil combo as I saw Evolve seemed to get some great results in the ISW thread, so I'll post my findings when I get them. I was thinking I might try L2K too, any thoughts?

Any recommendations on socials?

maybe ur wife just likes to be dominated? not initiator type of lady?

Thanks Lifeisgood,

No, unfortunately not! I've tried that on many occasions and it has the opposite effect - she just gets pi**ed off!

The best effect has been if I ignore her physically for a couple of weeks and turn down any offers (these are duty offers BTW) and feign disinterest but still be pleasant with her.

The second best is if I go out with the girls from work - she really doesn't like that and gets quite territorial! lol! I'm not keen on doing that too much though as it upsets her.

Bit disappointed she didn't respond to New Pheromone Additive though.

you need more challenge in your relationship.

that is why she mostly responds to you when you ignore her etc

i highly suggest you read Doc Loves "The System"

you can download a free copy online somewhere if you google it. torrent

mones, in my open, are not the end all be all. sometimes we just need some good, old fashion inner work!

i also HIGHLY recommended you do mirror affirmations by Cory Skyy. You can download his program online for free lol. torrent: Magnetic Mindset

Also, dont masturbate or watch porn for 90 days.

Here shared it for you :-)

Doc Love The System.pdf

Doc Love may sound cooky at first, but trust, get deep into it, a few 20 pages in and the light bulb will go off



Cory Skyy - Magnetic Mindset 3CDs (BSHB)

This changed my life, best thing Ive ever done was spend 30 minutes a day saying affirmations to myself.


And yea. No porn or masturbation for 90 days. This alone will make any woman crumble. You will be producing your own NATURAL phermones....the ones she first fell in love with :-)

Just downloaded the ebook, thanks.

Thats awesome! just noticed that you'd shared it - I'd got the slideshare version!

Thanks

That she got more aggressive with N.P.A is a reaction to the mones in my book.

If that's not what you want, go with Grail of Affection from Pheromone Treasures. This should get you the intimacy you're looking for.

To heat things up WITH intimacy, run GOA in combo with The Hookup, also from PTres. Check out my experiences with this combo (called THA-HUG) here(click.)