Hi All,

I'm absolutely new to pheromones. In fact, I just found out about pheromones about a month ago (how can I let this happen to me .....). Okay, so I'm ready to play catch up, lol.

Previously I couldn't get onto LP webpage and now that I have access to their shopping cart, the major problem is on deciding what to get ..... I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw the shopping cart ..... how did all of you do that? I mean nth versions of the Love Potion, nth versions of BAM ......

In addition, I'm really bad with scent .... Lol .... I know I don't like my scent to be too sweet (such as Vera Wang's Princess) and heavy (Angel by Thierry Mugler). I like light floral scent such as Issey Miyake, Envy (Gucci), Pleasure (Estee), Nude (Stella McCartney - okay but a little too powdery), Cool Water, Jasmin Noir (okay after the scent has settled).

My profile is as below:

1) 38 years old Asian Chinese woman, not on B/C, average looks but look at least 5-8 years younger, 167cm tall and 55kg.
2) I think I have dual-personality issue .... confident, outgoing, aggressive, impatient, friendly, in a marketing role in the education industry at work but a private person who dislike talking on the phone and can just stay in bed the whole weekend to chill out.
3) Most people find me aloof before they get to know me. My male friends end up in 3 categories (like, dislike or indifferent) while females friends end up in 2 categories (like and dislike).

I would like to use pheromones for:

1) Work - I'm in a marketing/BD function in the education industry so I'm surrounded by students (6-16yrs old). I read about the negative effect on children so I need to find out more. Otherwise, I'm usually with the adults.
2) I'll be meeting up with someone this summer. We had a connection, like 10 years ago. We are still very much attracted to each other and I would like to bring the relationship to a closure, i.e. to move on or to get together. I'm expecting a lot of romping too

Any suggestions? I would love to lay my hands on Instant Sexiness and Instant Sexiness/B. I'm getting IS, Turn Up The Heat, IO, IH, She-Wolf, Nude, PPC. I read abt LP Red & Black but I'm uncertain if this is too heavy or sweet for my liking.

Another question which I would like to know is that do you end up with more unscented or scented potions?

Boy, I'm really excited. Many thanks for your help.

JOC

(05-24-2010 1:02 AM)tezza23 Wrote:  I haven't had any problems with Instant Shine around a six-year-old, so I'd say you're probably safe to use that one around kids. Turn Up The Heat is really a men's Pheromone, it's got a lot of androstenone in it which seems to be sexually stimulating to women but also aversive in high doses, so "not safe for work". Might be worth spraying a little bit on HIM rather than on YOU. Openness and Honesty tend to make people yakkity yak. Probably safe around kids, if you don't mind your ear getting talked off.

The others, She-Wolf, Nude, and PPC, I am not familiar with and can't advise you.

Good luck! :good3:

Hi Tezza23,

Thank you for post. I was wondering what's the effects of Turn Up The Heat on men since it's sexually stimulating for the women .......

In addition, is there something safe to use around or on kids who are hyperactive and need to settle down to focus on school work?

Cheers,
JOC

Androstenone can cause discomfort, aggression and hostility in heterosexual men at higher doses, and asians tend to be more averse to Androstenone than some other races.

However, in the right doses, it can create arousal and sexual tension. I seem to recall a female member or 2 over at pherotalk saying that they would spray their pillow or rub a little under their nose before having sex, to highten the experience.

By the way, welcome to PheroTruth!

HI JOC I just wanted to welcome you here too! Lot's of experienced ladies here who can give better advice than me on the ladies products, though. I will say that I gave my fiance some Scent of Eros For Her and enjoy her wearing it. It's a light soapy floral scent and is very much an attractive mix! Have fun and Welcome!

Hmmm I prefer to get my potions 'scented'. The reason being that I find a lovely scent enhances my hits. I have a couple theories as to why this is. 1. I tend to use a heavy hand with my perfumes, so when I use an unscented mix I use too much. OD'ing people & getting negative reactions. I need the scent as a guide to get the proper dose. If you're new to pheromones I definitely suggest using a scented carrier. My personal experience is that I've been using Realm for years ( which is very low in actual pheromone content), so I had been used to using a ton to get any actual hits. When I started using 'professional grade' products year ago, I was OD'ing people left & right. I had the best perosnal results with LP's 1/3rd strength or phero enhanced brews. Now that I know that less is more I can use the full strength blends The most important advice I can give any newbie is that less is more!
LP Black & LP Red are very sweet, but they aren't cloying. I think you'll find that Mara's signature is gourmand, but she does have a few lovely florals. Morning Of Glory is one & it's on sale right now. It's light & fresh floral with green notes that leans more toward sweet.

Just want you to know that I received my shipment of IS, IO, IH and Turn Up The Heat yesterday. I was really excited and instructed DHL to deliver it in the late afternoon (yeah, I wanted to be home to receive my precious package) however, they didn't call as promised so my maid accepted the package on my behalf.

So, the experiment .....

Turn Up The Heat:
I waited till I was totally relaxed and applied 1.5 sprays of Turn Up The Heat (2.5mcg) to my pulse points. My initial opinion of the scent was ..... a little masculine for me. A waited for 10 mins before sniffing my wrist again ... nothing, no reaction. I did that for the next hour but I didn't feel different. Maybe I needed more.

Then I got on a long-distance call with the man who I'm seriously attracted. We chatted for more than half an hour but nothing happened to me ......

Then I proceeded to my bed with my little toy .... didn't feel exceptionally aroused in anyway. In fact, it took me longer to achieve O and they were rather weak. BF came and watched me. He's 8 years my senior and I have a very high sex drive. No extra heat or aggression observed. Went to bed at 1.30am feeling frustrated.

IS:
Didn't sleep well. Woke up a number of times and finally got up at 5am. Couldn't wait to change and try out IS (x2).

Again, 2 sprays on my neck, inner elbows and wrists. Smells like Turn Up The Heat, masculine. Didn't put any other scent as I want to find out the true reactions. No one commented on how I smell or reacting differently. 2 hours later, I sniffed my wrist and I think this smells better now.

I'll try Turn Up The Heat again tonight.

JOC

(05-24-2010 7:15 PM)JOC Wrote:  Just want you to know that I received my shipment of IS, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty and Turn Up The Heat yesterday. I was really excited and instructed DHL to deliver it in the late afternoon (yeah, I wanted to be home to receive my precious package) however, they didn't call as promised so my maid accepted the package on my behalf.

So, the experiment .....

Turn Up The Heat:
I waited till I was totally relaxed and applied 1.5 sprays of Turn Up The Heat (2.5mcg) to my pulse points. My initial opinion of the scent was ..... a little masculine for me. A waited for 10 mins before sniffing my wrist again ... nothing, no reaction. I did that for the next hour but I didn't feel different. Maybe I needed more.

Then I got on a long-distance call with the man who I'm seriously attracted. We chatted for more than half an hour but nothing happened to me ......

Then I proceeded to my bed with my little toy .... didn't feel exceptionally aroused in anyway. In fact, it took me longer to achieve O and they were rather weak. BF came and watched me. He's 8 years my senior and I have a very high sex drive. No extra heat or aggression observed. Went to bed at 1.30am feeling frustrated.

IS:
Didn't sleep well. Woke up a number of times and finally got up at 5am. Couldn't wait to change and try out IS (x2).

Again, 2 sprays on my neck, inner elbows and wrists. Smells like Turn Up The Heat, masculine. Didn't put any other scent as I want to find out the true reactions. No one commented on how I smell or reacting differently. 2 hours later, I sniffed my wrist and I think this smells better now.

I'll try Turn Up The Heat again tonight.

Hi JOC, welcome to PheroTruth!

I understand your frustration. A lot of people expect instant results with pheromone products. Most of the time, it takes a while to understand how they're suppose to work and get the hang of using them. You've got some great products, all you need is a little patience and some practice using them!

From what you've described in the scenario above, it seems to me you actually had a common reaction to Turn Up The Heat. You experienced frustration, now that could also be because your expectation of feeling super turned on wasn't met by your expectations of the product. Also the restlessness and inability to sleep were probably caused by the Turn Up The Heat.

If you're looking to turn him on more and actually get him into bed with you, I'd suggest you try wearing a copulin product instead of Androstenone. Or at least wear it with copulins and something like Instant Shine or Openness to buffer it. The addition of socials can help because sometimes you can be perceived by people as unapproachable or threatening when wearing Androstenone, especially if you already have an aggressive personality. I see you've purchased Passion Copulin Concentrate. Though the copulin content is low, you might give it a shot. You can always boost it with straight copulins from Love Scent, in the form of Essence of Woman, to make it more potent. The cucumber melon scent can handle/cover the addition of a lot more cops. You should also try having him wear the Turn Up The Heat instead of you and see if that helps to get his motor running more in your direction.

I gotta tell ya though, if your intended target was standing there watching while you were having fun with your toy right in front of him...and he didn't react...I don't think there's a pheromone on the planet than can help. Pheromones can push an attraction over the edge, if it's already there, but they can't force someone to do anything they really don't want to do.

And, unfortunately, pheromones aren't one size fits all. They are very subjective to the individual wearing them and not everyone will react to them in the same way. What works great for one person might not work so well for someone else. Some people never get self reactions at all or they wear off in time and/or with continued use or they get burned out with over use. Though some of the ladies have success wearing Androstenone, I don't and can't use much of it because it gives me anxiety and puts me on edge.

I would probably stay away from the kids while using Turn Up The Heat and stick to the social products like Instant Shine and Instant Openness, if, as Tezza said, you can handle the chatter! And as he also said, you can cover any neroli scented or unscented pheromone with your choice of fragrance without effecting the potency of the pheromones.

Good luck to you, JOC, hope that helps!


Bella

Hmm I concur with Bella. Also you may be using too much, remember less is more. I usually just use 1 or 2 sprays with great results. I spray 1 spray on my wrist, rub my wrist on my other wrist, in my inner elbows, etc. Spray on the back of my neck & rub to the sides of neck. 'None tends to make me a little bitchy if I OD myself, which for me is the same dose but around my period.
I'd say you definitely need copulins...you should try Captivation Equation from LP. It contains Copulins & Alpha Androstenal. We call it 'happy juice'. My husband doesn't respond to many pheromone products, there are only 3 actually. Which are LP products 1: Lace, 2: Captivation Equation, & Open Windows. Copulins affect me more than him( that's my personal experience), & some ladies have reported actually feeling friskier the next day.

Bella,

I finally found out where I can get Essence of Woman so it'll be one of the products which I will get soon. With the stench, I'll probably not bring it when I travel.

The other thing is that I was caught in the middle of the act .... he doesn't get to see me do that so it was kind of a turn-on for him. However, we did finish it off together. Age is catching up on his end so I thought couplins will be too tough on him, lol .....

I had Instant Shine yesterday. No comments from anyone but my masseur gave me an extra half hour massage. That's not something which I will complain about.

Didn't try Turn Up The Heat last night as I was really tired and I wanted to have a good night sleep.

I have IS and IO today and I covered it up with Nude (Stell McCartney). So far, only my American male colleague dropped by and had a quick chat on some curriculum matters. My 2 other American female colleagues just uttered their usual hello-goodbye.

Got to go now.

(05-25-2010 10:27 AM)Beccah1 Wrote:  Hmm I concur with Bella. Also you may be using too much, remember less is more. I usually just use 1 or 2 sprays with great results. I spray 1 spray on my wrist, rub my wrist on my other wrist, in my inner elbows, etc. Spray on the back of my neck & rub to the sides of neck. 'None tends to make me a little bitchy if I OD myself, which for me is the same dose but around my period.
I'd say you definitely need copulins...you should try Captivation Equation from Love Potion. It contains Copulins & Alpha Androstenal. We call it 'happy juice'. My husband doesn't respond to many pheromone products, there are only 3 actually. Which are Love Potion products 1: Lace, 2: Captivation Equation, & Open Windows. Copulins affect me more than him( that's my personal experience), & some ladies have reported actually feeling friskier the next day.

Hi Beccah1,

Thanks for your suggestions. Yes, I'm intend to go on a shopping spree at LP. It is sooooooo tough to make a decision. Tougher than making an investment decision .... so to speak.

Without pheromones, I'm already quite frisky and getting quite a bit of attention. I just want to take it easy on him .... poor guy!

JOC