Am a shower, and I can't really say that it's a good or bad thing. But when they see me, they do have a weird surprised wide open eyes look on their face sometimes.
There's a way to not even make it visible at all to the girl when u're in action. It's called foreplay. I personally love it. Especially when I tease her, by going all the way to the edge of where she's about to cum, and then completely stop for a bit, and then start again. Do that continually till she can't take it no more. And then penetrate. Till then, never show none of ur parts. May be just ur upper body, but that's it. I freaking love that. Turns me on. There's a few times that they gushed WHILE we were on intercourse, cos I wound her up that much. Oh and be prepared to be crushed when that happens. Her internal muscle contraction WILL crush ur penis when that happens. Lol. Good experience indeed. Of all times I slept with chicks, there were only a few times that I was able to synchronize the perfect timing of me coming and her gushing both at the same time. It's hard to achieve it both simultaneously. But it's doable. And when that happens, man it's an amazing feeling. It's easier to achieve it with the FWB. So am assuming it's easier to achieve it with ur gf or wife. Communication is defo the key.
I've learnt this many years ago from a cougar I slept with. Her communication method was simple. She told me to hold me left hand interlocked with the fingers to her right hand and when she twists it to her right, to me left, she wants me to go faster. And if she pushes it forward, she wants me to go harder, as in more pressure on both her clit (me tounge) and g-spot (me right hand fingers) at the same time. She was basically communicating everything in one hand motion without even saying none at all. Start slow and less pressure. U may wanna apply the same method with ur lover.
Oh and BTW, if u want her to be a memorable one, when she does gush, keep going. Don't stop. She won't like it, at the time. But she'll ask u for more if ya keep going. At that exact time, her leg muscles will be the strongest, so be prepared. Keep going for a few more seconds, and trust me, when the next time arrives, it ain't YOU who'll initiate. It'll be her. If ya do all of it the right way, and if it won't happen the exact way I described, I'll cut me ear and send it to ya thru the post. Am just messing, but seriously, it's good fun for both u AND ur partner. Make sure she's relaxed at the beginning.
Oh BTW, if u're ready to do it, do it at her place, on HER bed. Not urs. Cos when a lady gushes, she freaking wets the whole bed, 'nuf to even throw that bed sheet out. There goes 50 bucks down the drain. Lol. But the glow on her face after that gush, it's priceless. If ya both live in the same place, then put some kinda cover over the bed sheet. You've been warned.
If all this makes any sense to ya, then ya don't need to be worried about ur size. "SHE" won't care what ur size is. Cos basically ya just satisfied her better than the biggest dick in the world and the biggest dildo in the world. Make sure not to do it on a regular basis. And make sure ya demand what ya want and be an arse hole next time she initiates. After about 2 3 times she gives ya what ya want, only THEN, ya do it for her again. Show her that only YOU can give her that by only doing it here and there. But not all the time. And show her that ya do it ONLY when ya FEEL like doing it to her.
Gentlemen, do all that the right way, and see if she gives a flying inch about how big or small ur dick size is.