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BAD WOLF COMBOS
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theLaw
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RE: BAD WOLF COMBOS
05-15-2018 10:52 AM
@RoadRacer
Just a thought.
You might consider lining up your behaviour with the BW signature.
If you go back and read your posts, you'll notice that you defer to her for direction, while BW is more of a "take-charge" mix.
Also, BW is a hookup mix, so any "dating" behaviour is going to send mixed signals.
If you just want to f*ck (especially if you meet a girl on Tinder), then escalate in that direction, and if she shows resistance, then walk. Nothing personal against her, but Tinder is not a dating app, and primarily used for sex. Most women want to use Tinder for dating, which is dishonest right out of the gate. This is a great example where men must think for themselves, regardless of the "frame" that women want to create.
I think that the key to being aggressive is to have firm non-violent boundaries, while also being polite. The underlying message would probably be described as "I don't think this is what you want, and I have other options, so best of luck to you......" Then just walk.
Ambition is wildly attractive because it is always moving.
Signatures are forum-cancer.
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Lostdreams
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05-15-2018 4:07 PM
@roadracer
Agree with all the senior member posts
and adding me two cents
In me younger years, dated an hot older lass.
1st date, she drove,/picked me up.
After dinner and clubbing, she proceeded to drive to her
place, no questions. Me said “where we going next?”
With grin, she says “back to my place.”
That was not lost on me.
Who was driving? You were.
Next time dont ask, drive.
To your place, to lookout, etc.
Ime, she will either be ok with it or not.
Some will be quiet, some have even joked
“Whatcha gonna show me?”, etc etc.
some start foreplay in the car and those who
are not ok say so. With that, then me ask “ well
Where you wanna go?” Ending at either
another club, etc. or dropping her at her car or her place.
The moment she objects or says no to where your going,
take her back. At that point she could scream kidnapping
if you dont take her back.
From the moment you asked it was all downhill.
Edit: if she doesnt object as you drive to your place,
shes into you. It will either end in hookup or cuddling
in front of tv, etc.
(This post was last modified: 05-15-2018 4:20 PM by Lostdreams.)
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stefdude
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RE: BAD WOLF COMBOS
05-16-2018 4:01 AM
(05-15-2018 10:52 AM)theLaw Wrote: @RoadRacer
Just a thought.
You might consider lining up your behaviour with the BW signature.
If you go back and read your posts, you'll notice that you defer to her for direction, while BW is more of a "take-charge" mix.
Also, BW is a hookup mix, so any "dating" behaviour is going to send mixed signals.
If you just want to f*ck (especially if you meet a girl on Tinder), then escalate in that direction, and if she shows resistance, then walk. Nothing personal against her, but Tinder is not a dating app, and primarily used for sex. Most women want to use Tinder for dating, which is dishonest right out of the gate. This is a great example where men must think for themselves, regardless of the "frame" that women want to create.
I think that the key to being aggressive is to have firm non-violent boundaries, while also being polite. The underlying message would probably be described as "I don't think this is what you want, and I have other options, so best of luck to you......" Then just walk.
Ambition is wildly attractive because it is always moving.
Very well said!
They've done studies you know...60% of the time, it works every time
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