Crusher, initially you've got no need to be mixing your mones with your EDT; you'll most likely end up wasting both products. There's no definitive amount you need to be using, everybody has their own sweet spot.

If you haven't read this, then do:
http://pherotruth.org/Thread-NooB-Basics--8019

Also go through the Journal section and utilise the search tool; all the information you seek has already been asked before.

All the best,

Fin.