Soo... Long story short, a chick I dig and that I've had linch with and conversations outside of work came up to me today to tell me people think we are fucking. She laughed and we laughed about how funny that is. Rumor was started just because we occasionally get lunch together. I joked that I should ask this other manager to lunch just to see his face. She made jokes about how she's always up for a good time, albeit rushed on a half hour lunch break.

Where do I go from here?

Turned the rumor into reality

(12-18-2015 9:34 PM)Spars Wrote:  Soo... Long story short, a chick I dig and that I've had linch with and conversations outside of work came up to me today to tell me people think we are fucking. She laughed and we laughed about how funny that is. Rumor was started just because we occasionally get lunch together. I joked that I should ask this other manager to lunch just to see his face. She made jokes about how she's always up for a good time, albeit rushed on a half hour lunch break.

Where do I go from here?

There's laughter about but I believe there's now intrigue (if there wasn't before) in her mind of indeed fucking you. The thought would have crossed her mind.

I think you can now make some progression between you and her in that nature.

Also, any mones at your disposal to make it easier to ease on in?

"Oh, yeah? What'd you say?"
"I said...no/yes." Doesn't matter.
"Why?"
"Well, maybe we should go grab a few drinks, got anything going on?"
Alcohol makes everything easier. If you don't wanna friendzone her, bang her.

Thank you, one and all.

I've rolled a lot of mones by her many of times. She's the main reason I've been on my quest for a killer combo.
Currently I'm running NA at 4 drops, GOA at three, and two sprays atlas with a cover. The last two days of this combo have had some benefits. It's hard to see what's hitting and how that reaction is being displayed. She's not much of a physician flirt with touching of any kind and she's grabbed my elbow before and sorta pulled me in to discuss business while wearing GOA by itself.

Interestingly enough she only brought up this story of here say after I asked when we were gonna hang out again. My hopeless self can't help but draw that line. She was tossing her hair wildly and blushing when she was telling me. Wish I had the right thing to say, but I want to build that tension of not addressing the elephant in the room, which is an area I guess I lack. I seem spend my time making things abundantly apparent.

I was pretty confident with BW around her, but she seemed to become much more introverted when I did. I tried three or four times and it was the same reaction.

M3x gave some good effects, but I had trouble escalating from that "angle" of disinhibition. I believe it's more me than that compund, however.

She responded really well in the beginning to AV but it was waayy too all over the place.

The imprinting is an interesting angle and I hope it comes through. People in general seem to light up with this combo and the Atlas just seems to give me a little extra than my old favorite, Titan.

If they think you're fucking her at least people think you're in "her league" and you guys look like there's something there. People can tell. Fucking go for it, ask her out.

Don't make your intention clear. It kills the conversation. No matter whatever happens. The thrill of chasing is always great.

She would have started making distance from the office humor. She didn't . It means that you have done your magic. It is just the time to take lead.

Ask her to come to your house for dinner and movie. If she say yes then you are all set. If she say no then start making distance. It will turn no to yes.

At home, do as much kino as you can. Use Bad Wolf at home. It will make the job easy if you can lead. After this, it will be clear that what she wants.

Don't tell her about your intention. Just let your physical body do the job.

Thanks

If she joked about it, that means she’s thinking about it. Get her to imagine it…”If we were fucking, how would you imagine it?”

Don’t get caught up in how cute this girl is or you won’t be able to think straight. Keep using humor. Touch her on the arm or hand when she is laughing and while you playfully tease her. That creates physical and an emotional bond.

Show confidence, act like you don’t care whether or not the two of you jump in the sack. Create sexual tension. If you can do this, it is a slam dunk.

I’m not the mone expert….yet, but I would think that a mone that portrays “Mr. Popular,” “Rock Star” or “VIP” during your daytime lunches (and doing what I have already mentioned) will set the hook. Then use the sexual mix for the meetup to seal the deal.

Good luck and report back.

This is easy, just say one Thursday or Friday you've had a tough week and asks if she fancies a quick drink after work. It's casual and without commitment but puts you in a perfect environment to escalate. Just do it!

Mones wise she's clearly already attractive to you, so something comfort and disinhibitive would provide a sensible base to ease the escalation.

I think you'd be better off using the mones solo
NA is fine on it's own
GOA is fine on it's own

Considering that neither LAL, Pheromone Treasures or Apex list their ingredients or percentage, there is no way to figure out what beast you've created.

Just my two cents...
Keep it secret, keep it safe