(06-03-2015 6:26 PM)Blacky Chan Wrote:  Can't believe you guys are falling for this.

Not challenging you... you look like Anderson Silva and I don't want my ass handed to me but here's a different perspective.

Maybe we aren't falling for it. I see some inconsistencies in the story. He clams to be alpha for his GFs sex life (also needless info) but his name and title for the post are totally needy. So what if he's a total troll? Wasting our time because he's a loser with no life. What if we still comment and this all goes away. Months later someone with this real issue googles it, sees this, sees the info, doesn't join and ask questions. Still he finds the success he's looking for. Haven't we still made the world a better place? After all it was a similar coincidence searching for natural ways to boost testosterone that led me here...

Or maybe he really has an issue and isn't as good as you at communication. Some of us might just care a little more than you.

(06-03-2015 6:26 PM)Blacky Chan Wrote:  Can't believe you guys are falling for this.

Falling for what?

(06-03-2015 6:26 PM)Blacky Chan Wrote:  Can't believe you guys are falling for this.

I still give info to potential trolls, in the hopes they turn out to be something else. Yes, the username was somewhat obvious though.

Mark, perhaps an IP check is in order?

(06-03-2015 7:21 PM)Ekscentra Wrote:  I still give info to potential trolls, in the hopes they turn out to be something else. Yes, the username was somewhat obvious though.

Mark, perhaps an IP check is in order?

I am not sure if your talking about me or not, but in all seriousness I am foreal hoping that there is a pheromone that would help.

(06-03-2015 3:56 PM)Helpmeplease Wrote:  We go to see a sex therapist every week. At one meeting he pulled me to the side and suggested I try pheromones. While he was unable to give me any advice on which to use, he did think it could cause her to be uninhibited, and extremely aroused which could help us actually repeat pain free sex.

Suggested pheromones, but can't tell you which product? If "he" doesn't know which product would help, "he" wouldn't have suggested pheromones. That, to me, is the giveaway that it's trolling because it doesn't make sense.

Unless this thread goes somewhere far different from where it has I seriously doubt that helpmeplease is anything but sincere! Yeah we have had some trolls but I see nothing from him that indicates anything other than someone grasping at anything he can to improve his situation, and that some of you jumped so quickly to conclude otherwise leaves me with a heavy heart.

Hey guys I think what I need is a Andro, that has some mix that uninhibits, and projects class/ older guy type thing, but focused on the andro. thing what do you guys think, I am not trolling and i am sorry if i offended anyone, for my lack of knowledge or whatever else you didn't like. The reason I am saying the older guy/ class thing is cause she has always dated older guys before me, i am 27. You guys are right its not very alpha of me to be acting this way, and Its cause I have bonded with her unlike anyone else I have ever met. I am literally trying anything to help her overcome this. Again please take me seriously and any advice is warranted. I never thought i would find someone i would care for as much as her, and i have been married and divorced. anyways I still need help guys and I have no idea about any of this stuff. so if you say take ... with ... i am not gonna know what your talking about.

What sort of leader aura would you like to project? Provider-nurturer or hunter-procreator?

(06-03-2015 9:54 PM)kimosabe Wrote:  What sort of leader aura would you like to project? Provider-nurturer or hunter-procreator?

Thats a interesting question and have no idea how to respond to be quite honest. My main goal is to make her horny as fuck, but comfortable, while giving off i guess a older guy/ class type pheromone. But I think she would prefer a provider nurturer vibe, but i have no fucking idea what i would want out of those two.

Just throwing this out there in case... have you tried alcohol? I wouldn't be surprised if you had, but I suggest it because I was dating, or at least messing around with a woman for a while last year who had vaginismus. Took us a few tries to overcome the issue. What ended up working well was for us to drink a few glasses of wine together until she'd get uninhibited, then I'd go down on her for a while until she got close to orgasm, then she seemed to be able to have sex alright. Oddly, after a few times, she didn't need the alcohol any more. Seems it got her over whatever psychological subconscious issues were causing the problem. Don't know if they came back or not with the guy after me, I don't talk to her any more.