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BarefootOxford
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RE: Chicago Newbie - questions
09-26-2017 11:28 PM
(09-26-2017 8:25 PM)Jimmycrack Wrote: But seriously... RUN don't walk. Run away.
OP, you came here for advice, and the verdict is in: GTFO. She doesn't care about your needs. She's not horny for you. She's just not that into you. She thinks you need her more than she needs you.
Prove her wrong. Leave.
OK, since we all know you're not going to do that (based on your dodging the prior advice), start creating dread. Up your game. Improve your wardrobe. Start flirting with other women in her presence; don't be a cad, just be charming and stay on the right side of the line. Pick up a new hobby, preferably one that has you away from her for extended periods of time. More preferably in mixed company. Change your cologne. Change your look/beard/hair/brand-of-underwear. ORDER SOME DIRTY PRIMITIVE AND WEAR A DROP 2x/wk). Go on a diet. Hit the gym.
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RE: Chicago Newbie - questions
09-27-2017 8:06 AM
(09-26-2017 11:28 PM)BarefootOxford Wrote: OP, you came here for advice, and the verdict is in: GTFO. She doesn't care about your needs. She's not horny for you. She's just not that into you. She thinks you need her more than she needs you.
Prove her wrong. Leave.
OK, since we all know you're not going to do that (based on your dodging the prior advice), start creating dread. Up your game. Improve your wardrobe. Start flirting with other women in her presence; don't be a cad, just be charming and stay on the right side of the line. Pick up a new hobby, preferably one that has you away from her for extended periods of time. More preferably in mixed company. Change your cologne. Change your look/beard/hair/brand-of-underwear. ORDER SOME DIRTY PRIMITIVE AND WEAR A DROP 2x/wk). Go on a diet. Hit the gym.
Speaking from experience with a previous relationship, I heartily 2nd this advice. It made a tremendous difference for me to focus on me and what and who I wanted to be.
My GF at the time noticed and started paying a lot more attention to me. In my case it also brought out glaring issues in the relationship to the point that I was the one who walked away from the relationship and into a MUCH better one.
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