It amazes me that most pick up artist technique come from NLP and in that long time learning it they couldn't reframe cold approach to something like warm approach, this tells you how much they actually understand NLP
Want the girls to feel cold? imagine doing a cold approach, your body may even get cold while doing it, she may even see you as someone cold

(07-19-2018 9:17 PM)DarkLord1 Wrote:  The game evolves.

Not sure why you can’t do both

Agreed!

Why not just go out, have fun and be yourself? Crazy thought I know...

(07-21-2018 2:53 AM)ps775 Wrote:  Why not just go out, have fun and be yourself? Crazy thought I know...

Keep in mind that the PUA industry was designed to teach guys how to get laid as quickly as possible. Not the easiest way..........not the most effective way.......but the fastest way.

Going out socially, and being yourself is an excellent way to have healthy relationships, but comparatively, a very slow way to get laid.

Having said that, it's also the path chosen by nearly every man on the planet, so not a bad idea.

Judging by the all answers it seems like I'm the only one left on this forum who cold approaches strangers in bars/clubs without using social media. While out and about last night I did notice other men doing it too though.

(07-21-2018 2:53 AM)ps775 Wrote:  Why not just go out, have fun and be yourself? Crazy thought I know...

Yeah for sure! Make sure you don't use mones either to REALLY be yourself! ;)

(07-21-2018 11:00 AM)metaltree Wrote:  Judging by the all answers it seems like I'm the only one left on this forum who cold approaches strangers in bars/clubs without using social media. While out and about last night I did notice other men doing it too though.

Its funny going out and watching these guys stare at chicks for hours and never approach even when the girl's sending all the signs. A lot of these guys lack social skill and a pair. I used to open girls four other guys, but after getting cock blocked by "friends" and a attracting a bunch of remoras i quit.

(07-21-2018 2:15 PM)Blacky Chan Wrote:  Its funny going out and watching these guys stare at chicks for hours and never approach even when the girl's sending all the signs. A lot of these guys lack social skill and a pair. I used to open girls four other guys, but after getting cock blocked by "friends" and a attracting a bunch of remoras i quit.

Did you quit opening for other guys or did you quit cold approaching in general?

(07-21-2018 4:34 PM)metaltree Wrote:  Did you quit opening for other guys or did you quit cold approaching in general?

Opening for other guys with the exception of a few close friends.

(07-21-2018 5:03 PM)Blacky Chan Wrote:  Opening for other guys with the exception of a few close friends.

It feels very weak to have someone else open for me. I would never do it.

I have had girls that I've cold approached turn down my advances but offer to be my wing woman and approach for me. This doesn't happen often but it does happen once in a while. I always turn down the offer because it just feels weak.