I admit that I'm a nice person usually and before I learned anything about relationships, I usually bottle things up for at least months at a time. I get angry in small bits at the relation at the time until there was a breakup. The thing is after that, there was a huge argument with my ex, and I let it all out full force and it was all illogical with ad hominem arguments but it felt so good. (Alot of asian women are hot-headed so its kinda fun arguing with them and then loving them after).

Now I regret having self control and I should've addressed everything that I was suppressing in my mind for a long time and I should've just let everything that was bothering me all at once, instead of small bits.

(01-24-2016 8:24 PM)cali4ya858 Wrote:  I admit that I'm a nice person usually and before I learned anything about relationships, I usually bottle things up for at least months at a time. I get angry in small bits at the relation at the time until there was a breakup. The thing is after that, there was a huge argument with my ex, and I let it all out full force and it was all illogical with ad hominem arguments but it felt so good. (Alot of asian women are hot-headed so its kinda fun arguing with them and then loving them after).

Now I regret having self control and I should've addressed everything that I was suppressing in my mind for a long time and I should've just let everything that was bothering me all at once, instead of small bits.

If you argue with someone who is in love with you , you may hurt her bad but she'll probably want you to patch things with her and the two of you may get closer (make up sex is the best isn't it? lol).

However, if you hardly know her and you send a huge IOD like a verbal fight, you're toast man.