Just wanted to rant here, but last night I dreamt that an ex (not the wife) found my forum journal and started going cray! I guess now that I'm awake it doesn't seem so bad, but it felt so scary!

I've been thinking of telling the wife and bestfriend about my use, but been holding back. My bestfriend knows I've been interested in pheromones for ages, and recently told her "I'm tempted to try some out!" Lol

I'm sure there's already a thread related to this, but what do you all think? To tell or not to tell!

I spend so much time on these forums I dream about browsing PT nearly every night.

You can never predict how they might react, but I'd say tell. Something interesting could come of it.

(09-10-2015 4:25 PM)Ekscentra Wrote:  I spend so much time on these forums I dream about browsing PT nearly every night.

You can never predict how they might react, but I'd say tell. Something interesting could come of it.

Hahaha! I've been finding myself more and more obsessed with browsing PT it's sad. I have so many things going on but being here so much makes me feel/seem I have no life! Lol so addicting.

I was thinking of telling my bestfriend cause she just got into a nursing program and thought hey maybe it'd help with making an impression on her professors and get a good grade in clinicals! I mentioned sending her some "free samples" from a site (lovescent's samples), but she has this preconceived notion that it's all for attraction. Lol! Have to give her a taste of some socials if I do then!!

I debate the same thing if my wife and I reconcile. Do I tell her, do I not? LOL

My best friend knows about it, and he was actually very intrigued. He is like a brother, so no issues there.

I guess it all depends on you and how you are feeling about letting someone know about your new hobby.

(09-10-2015 4:44 PM)Walsh77 Wrote:  I debate the same thing if my wife and I reconcile. Do I tell her, do I not? LOL

My best friend knows about it, and he was actually very intrigued. He is like a brother, so no issues there.

I guess it all depends on you and how you are feeling about letting someone know about your new hobby.

Th only one I truly trust is my best friend lol we'll see! It's a fun idea to me!

I see that a lot of you guys are open with your gals about what you're sing but that seems very odd to me.

I've always just imagined it going in the opposite direction that I wanted it to

Don't you run the risk of them being like "What, you cant be no man without your fancy-ass cologne !? You need to get yo shit up out my momma and dem's house for I cll the police up in here on that juju shit!"

(09-10-2015 8:28 PM)Samus Wrote:  I see that a lot of you guys are open with your gals about what you're sing but that seems very odd to me.

I've always just imagined it going in the opposite direction that I wanted it to

Don't you run the risk of them being like "What, you cant be no man without your fancy-ass cologne !? You need to get yo shit up out my momma and dem's house for I cll the police up in here on that juju shit!"

It's not about being a man. It's about improving the lives of people around you and enhancing bonds. Love is a natural thing. It's biological. If we have the power to make it work, isn't that what you'd choose?

As for pheromone dreams, I had one last night. And I had a fever so it was super weird. I was at work, and we got this shipment of Apex's Imprint. It was like 5000 bottles and we didn't know what to do with it all. So we started testing lol

Samus:
I guess it depends on their perception.. Sometimes it's lack of knowledge, cause mones are no voodoo, but only tools, like a new wardrobe.

NP17:
I wouldn't mind having a dream like THAT! I'd love a willy wonka style dream. Entering a magical place, and swim in mone products. lol but who would I test it on..

You know, you are the only one who can really assess if you should tell her. It depends on how you feel about it as well as her potential response. Are you ok with keeping a secret? And if the chances are that she'll freak out and you lose her over it, would you then have preferred to keep it a secret?

Personally, in my situation, I don't care. I have a girl I'm considering dating who I always came close to getting a good enough connection and attraction with. But not quite enough. Last time I met her I wore AV and it was all there. It was a nudge that was needed and the tool I used were pheromones. Will I ever tell her? I don't expect to.

But that's not a problem to me because it's a good type of secret. Something beautiful might be created for the best of everyone involved. I have a very strong sense of right and wrong and assess everything if something is actually right or wrong in my opinion, without rationalizations. This is ok to me. Which allows me to let it go and not care. I did something good.

You might have other ideas about it. Many people see things differently. And that's why you're the only one who can decide. Also, you are the best judge of what your wife is like, and the whole situation for that matter.

Do the right thing for the right reason. That is part of my mindset. What both the "rights" in that sentence are, depends on the person. I assume there are people who are appalled at the very notion of pheromones. And I accept that. It's their point of view.

So the following is something you have to consider for yourself. But would it be a good idea to tell your best friend and then discuss the situation with your wife with her?

Oh, and about dreams... I had a dream about mones once. At least that I can remember. I was in a store and there was a section filled with bottles of pheromone products. From all sorts of brands. It... was... amazing. You could just buy them right there. I was quite disappointed when I woke up...

Btw, something just occurred to me. If I remember correctly, you often use products that are designed for men to attract women, right? And I can imagine that could work, but it also might be confusing for your wife. You are wearing a male signature. Maybe using a product for women to attract women would get better results.

Just a thought, I'm not an expert on that. I'm sure someone else on here will know or else you can always contact some customer services of some of the companies.

In any case, good luck with the situation!

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