Thanks Kimba. I do have my limits. I knew something was off a few weeks ago, and I suspect its another guy. But I'm not sure. She had some guy she hooked up with that she wasn't close with before from a while back. And he recently came back into the picture. She, the hook up guy, and his geeky friend have been going out a lot.

She said shes not seeing anyone, but I bet my bottom dollar they're up to something. I just don't want to deal with it anymore.

Yea fuck that shit and back into gaming... Not worth the emotional, physical and mental drain


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(04-03-2014 11:15 AM)phertest Wrote:  Thanks Kimba. I do have my limits. I knew something was off a few weeks ago, and I suspect its another guy. But I'm not sure. She had some guy she hooked up with that she wasn't close with before from a while back. And he recently came back into the picture. She, the hook up guy, and his geeky friend have been going out a lot.

She said shes not seeing anyone, but I bet my bottom dollar they're up to something. I just don't want to deal with it anymore.

Ahhhh History repeats itself.

Sorry to hear that man, that sucks. I was in a similar situation at the beginning of this year. Same type of deal, were friends, started dating. She moved away and I could tell she was seeing other people (I'm too good at reading between the lines). She decided that she'd rather keep the other dude in her life than me. Oh well.

I miss her dearly sometimes, because what we had was really fun and awesome. But it is what it is and I'm choosing to just appreciate that closed chapter in my life. Now I'm just dating around, have a fwb here and there and still open to meeting new girls.

Life is a trip and you can only see where it'll take you if you let go of your anchors.

I dont like entertaining the idea but it is a possibility. She is genuine and I'd like to believe thats not the case but fuck it. Im done anyway. Its hard to cut someone out completely who's been so close to you, but most worth it in the long run

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(04-03-2014 12:59 PM)phertest Wrote:  I dont like entertaining the idea but it is a possibility. She is genuine and I'd like to believe thats not the case but fuck it. Im done anyway. Its hard to cut someone out completely who's been so close to you, but most worth it in the long run

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Hard, but 100% the right decision

We should learn how to dump women before they dump us, which is usually what happens all the time. For every heart-breaker dude there are 10 guys with the heart broken, if not even more.

(04-03-2014 1:46 PM)Khan Solo Wrote:  We should learn how to dump women before they dump us, which is usually what happens all the time. For every heart-breaker dude there are 10 guys with the heart broken, if not even more.

No, we need to learn to enjoy THE MOMENT, and stop letting our egos take it personal. IF someone doesn't want to be with you, you should be glad they're gone! IF only it worked like that. It took me a while to start living that. Now, I enjoy all the naughty and wonderful moments I can! And should tomorrow not have her in my plans ... so be it. Sure, my pride would be little tarnished, but I get it! So ... As Chris Rock would say, "I DON'T LIKE IT, BUT I DO UNDERSTAND!"

(04-03-2014 2:09 PM)MMM Wrote:  No, we need to learn to enjoy THE MOMENT, and stop letting our egos take it personal. IF someone doesn't want to be with you, you should be glad they're gone!

Preach on brother. I think this is the right perspective to have.

(04-03-2014 2:09 PM)MMM Wrote:  IF only it worked like that. It took me a while to start living that. Now, I enjoy all the naughty and wonderful moments I can! And should tomorrow not have her in my plans ... so be it. Sure, my pride would be little tarnished, but I get it! So ... As Chris Rock would say, "I DON'T LIKE IT, BUT I DO UNDERSTAND!"

Of course it is easier said than done, but the important thing here is that IT CAN BE DONE!

(04-03-2014 2:09 PM)MMM Wrote:  No, we need to learn to enjoy THE MOMENT, and stop letting our egos take it personal. IF someone doesn't want to be with you, you should be glad they're gone! IF only it worked like that. It took me a while to start living that. Now, I enjoy all the naughty and wonderful moments I can! And should tomorrow not have her in my plans ... so be it. Sure, my pride would be little tarnished, but I get it! So ... As Chris Rock would say, "I DON'T LIKE IT, BUT I DO UNDERSTAND!"

Yeeah, what I was trying to say is that we men can have a tendency to stick to a relationship even when it is failing (basically we think we are in a comfortable situation because we don't need to go hunting anymore, too stressful) and women usually make up their minds much better and quicker and often take the lead to decide when it's over. They interpret better the cycle of the relationship at least in the final stages.