Hi everybody! Like my title says, I'm college sophomore from New York and I'm excited to be a part of this community and contribute to it.

A little about myself:

I used to be a somewhat smart kid going to a well-known high school and then I got accepted into an amazing university. (It might be TMI here on out, I'm sorry. I just want to get this off my chest) After my freshman year, I felt suicidal and told my friend I wanted to kill myself. He called the campus police and I was put in a ward for a week and sent home afterwards. After a lot of legal complications with the university, they dismissed me as a student. I was not allowed to return. When I heard the news, I was so heartbroken. Why did I try so hard in high school if I would just end up at my local college? I had the opportunity to graduate from a prestigious well-known institution and I blew it

After a year of feeling sorry for myself and absolutely depressed, I applied and received admittance to my local college. And now I'm here as a college sophomore in New York. I'm not as depressed as I was before and my college doesn't bother me too much (although my parents are still disappointed), but I have absolutely no social life back home here in New York. I cut off all contact with friends from my old school because it was so embarrassing to have to leave like that. My old high school friends are in other states and it's been a long time since I've talked with them. And to be honest, we were never really friends. We just hung out because we were in the same class. We would find new people every year. And it was the same in college too, I guess.

Ok that's the end of my back story, thank you for reading this far.
Lately, I've been experimenting with Hypnodaddy subliminals on youtube. Mainly, I want to get rid of my porn and masturbation addiction, so I've been listening to
1. Stop PMO
2. Will Power
It's been a week and so far been working like a charm. Also listening to his alpha male sub.

Anyways, I'm going to scour the forums and try some of these cool pheromones. There's so much information that it's hard to know where to start. For now, you'll find me in the Newbie section.

I'd also love some advice from you veterans. Any threads or suggestions that you think would be helpful for a college student like me? I go to a commuter school from home, so to be honest there is less socialization going down at my school than you would find at a state college. But, there are significantly more women at my school than guys, so...

Although I would like to have girls attracted to me, I honest to god just want to have good relationships with people. I also want to have sex, but I probably have to wait until I move out of my parents place, which won't be for another 2 years probably. I want friends.

Ah thank you for reading my post! Let me know if you want to be friends!!

Hello and welcome!

Are you sure that a pheromone forum and the usage of potentially mind alternating substances is the right thing for you? Some, and more than a few, report depression after the use of some mones. Having a depression, suicide idea and a ward time in your background and probably some addiction (porn) ongoing - it might be not unproblematic. Serious mental health issues should be treated by professionals.
Nobody but yourself can assess that, but please consider it.

Welcome to Pherotruth. Best advice I can give is don't dwell on past ill tidings. Similar to your situation, I gave up a half-ride scholarship to a very prestigious technology institute in Massachusetts to play music. I finally ended up in a big ten state school wondering what happened. John said it best: life is what happens while you're making other plans.

My best advice for what pheromones you might want to try is to go through the vendors websites and look at their products (please use the links here on pherotruth rather than go directly to their website) and write down the products that sound appealing to you. From there, read through the reviews posted here on pherotruth and narrow down your list to a few products that really resonate with you and your goals.

(01-14-2020 9:07 AM)Gladen Wrote:  Welcome to Pherotruth. Best advice I can give is don't dwell on past ill tidings.

Exactly. The milks already spilt. You can Either stand there looking at it or clean it up and get outside and play.

When you get older you'll look back and think " what the hell was I thinking?".

Improve yourself, eat healthy ,and try a social pheromone,maybe one that doesn't have ingredients that cause depression. Read the forum... somewherr there is a thread about which ingredients cause depression(is it dienone?) and maybe contact the vendors to find out of they have anything like that.

I prefer swoon (lighthearted and playful)
Over cohesion(chatty with kino) . And there are many other socials. Hypnotica, glace, core, style, etc. Good luck.

(01-14-2020 10:22 AM)Lostdreams Wrote:  
I prefer swoon (lighthearted and playful)
Over cohesion(chatty with kino) . And there are many other socials. Hypnotica, glace, core, style, etc. Good luck.

That's a great list. I might also suggest that you look into GRAV by Apex. It is mostly a fun, laid back, good time, social blend; but it also has some attraction and sexuality mixed in. For me, it was kind of the laid back "peaked in high school Rob Lowe" fun youthful social vibe kind of feel. For hanging out and having fun, it could be a fine blend for you.