so i'm fairly new to mones and i need some major help guys

so far I bought the special trial versions from love potion offered during xmas holidays.
i have:

Cougar unscented (is this stone cougar?)
Blatant Invitation
Gotcha

Scene 1
the first time I tried both blatant invitation and cougar together when hanging out with friends.
we went to watch a movie first then went to a bar. 2 guys and 2 girls(including me).

I swear i got ALOT of Deer in the headlights but i wasn't sure if it was cuz of Blatant Invitation or Cougar. these were all young asian guys in their 20s. (Im asian, it was an asian bar lol)

people were friendly around me, gave me quite some attention. one guy was all over me touchy feely.

i made the mistake of wearing 2 new mones together so i really didnt know which one was doing the job.


Scene 2
so a week later, i decided to wear cougar alone and see how it works.

i invited over a guy friend and a girl friend, we were just chatting in my house, then another guy came (my guy friend's brother, i never met him before).

we were all sitting and chatting, I had my Cougar on..HOWEVER, i noticed people weren't talking to me directly. they were all super chatty and were fighting over each other for a chance to talk..but it wasn't directed towards me!


extra info:
not to sound shallow but i might as well be brutally honest so i can get some real help here:

I have 2 girl friends. both are super outgoing types. one is quite hot, the other is not at all.

back then when i hung out with my hot girl friend, i would always think maybe people think shes hotter than me and an attention grabber thats why i feel a bit invisible sometimes.
however, this time, we were hanging out with my..um..not so hot friend and i felt exactly the same. i hate that invisible feeling in the crowd. (this sounds terribly shallow but oh wells)

she left early so it was just me and 2 guys. shortly after, another guy left so it was just me and my guy friend.

i noticed something about me, when its one on one situations, the guy usually opens up to me ALOT.
my guy friend seemed like he couldnt wait for others to leave so he can talk to me one on one.
he even invited me to have dinner with him on weekend and was telling me loads of stuff...however, in the group setting he wasnt willing to talk to other people about his issues.(normal i guess).

Scene 3:
this time i wore Essence of Woman stinky cops alone to a condo party.
nothing happened. the host was super chatty and kept talkin and talkin but that was just his personality. nothing unsual.


so heres what i need help with:
cougar didn't work for me in terms of being in a group setting, i didn't feel the popular vibe at all. i definitely didnt feel like the centre of attention. i felt that everyone was just competing for attention that day and talking over each other.
i really wanted it to work, as a newb i might not noticed some hits but i really felt invisible again even with only 3 other people.

im not sure what to try next. i get loads of attention and feel like people are all over me when its one-on-one situations.
but throw me in the group i feel invisible. HATE IT. I dont know why

i need a good mone that will give me the attention because i have quite a few functions coming up all in group settings.

i haven't had the chance to try gotcha as i dont have a target i want now.

it's my opinion that you need to wear products several times before you judge them..how much did you wear? You have to sweet spot test by starting with a low amount and working your way up and keeping track of what worked best at which dose...its' impossible to give you good advice without you playing with them some more.

(01-30-2013 11:33 AM)halo0073 Wrote:  it's my opinion that you need to wear products several times before you judge them..how much did you wear? You have to sweet spot test by starting with a low amount and working your way up and keeping track of what worked best at which dose...its' impossible to give you good advice without you playing with them some more.

first time 2-3 sprays
second time..4? or max 5

nothing much happened will continue to test

I feel ya miss jelly. In fact, Cougar is just sort of "meh" on me. I have only tried Love Potion's products so I can only give you info on how those effect me but I will say this: For me the blends that are sexual and social/sexual seem to work best for me. Blatant Invitation is a winner as is Super Sexy for women and Sexpionage. Though I reserve Sexpionage for husband usually. Also cops are a daily staple.

Maybe try some of the sexier blends? I apply the cop-less ones in a spray all over after I'm dressed, about 4 sprays total, hair, clothes, chest, and one I just spray in the air and walk through.

Also what's helped me to see if a particular phero works for me is to wear it about 2 weeks straight, take a break and then come back to it for a week or two. Tedious I know, but that's just what I do. Hope that helps.

(01-30-2013 12:01 PM)missjelly Wrote:  first time 2-3 sprays
second time..4? or max 5

nothing much happened will continue to test

Are you talking sprays from the little 5ml bottles? I got those in the Love Potion sale, the 10 for 10? 6 sprays out of those lil guys seem to be my sweet spot.

Are you looking for something to work in a way where you just sit back and everyone comes to you? Are you engaging people and promoting the experience or are you just hoping for something out of the ordinary to happen? Oh, granted, I've have PLENTY of things happen that are plain out right out of the ordinary, lol, but I find becoming the catalyst FAR more entertaining. If you aren't congruent with the out come you're looking for, you could be on the road to disappointment.

Some of the things you mentioned made me think that the mones are obviously affecting people by their behavior but they wouldn't necessarily associate the mones with you. In a small room and enough time you could easily be lost among the more outgoing types present. Look at mones like an accessory to who you are and your style. When you put on the little red dress that hugs your curves in all the right places, you look hot and you own it...when you put on a social phero blend like cougar, your become the "it" girl, the witty, funny, sexy beast that everyone can't get enough of...be the beast....puuuuurr

(01-30-2013 9:38 PM)MysticalBellyDancer Wrote:  I feel ya miss jelly. In fact, Cougar is just sort of "meh" on me. I have only tried Love Potion's products so I can only give you info on how those effect me but I will say this: For me the blends that are sexual and social/sexual seem to work best for me. Blatant Invitation is a winner as is Super Sexy for women and Sexpionage. Though I reserve Sexpionage for husband usually. Also cops are a daily staple.

Maybe try some of the sexier blends? I apply the cop-less ones in a spray all over after I'm dressed, about 4 sprays total, hair, clothes, chest, and one I just spray in the air and walk through.

Also what's helped me to see if a particular phero works for me is to wear it about 2 weeks straight, take a break and then come back to it for a week or two. Tedious I know, but that's just what I do. Hope that helps.

aha, i guess the first time when i got the Deer in the headlights it was blatant invitation doing the job then...i really dont like cougar...doesnt do anything on me..werid.
2 weeks is painfully long some mones hit so fast but this one...im just not feeling it sadly

(01-30-2013 9:49 PM)NuTrix Wrote:  Are you talking sprays from the little 5ml bottles? I got those in the Love Potion sale, the 10 for 10? 6 sprays out of those lil guys seem to be my sweet spot.

Are you looking for something to work in a way where you just sit back and everyone comes to you? Are you engaging people and promoting the experience or are you just hoping for something out of the ordinary to happen? Oh, granted, I've have PLENTY of things happen that are plain out right out of the ordinary, lol, but I find becoming the catalyst FAR more entertaining. If you aren't congruent with the out come you're looking for, you could be on the road to disappointment.

Some of the things you mentioned made me think that the mones are obviously affecting people by their behavior but they wouldn't necessarily associate the mones with you. In a small room and enough time you could easily be lost among the more outgoing types present. Look at mones like an accessory to who you are and your style. When you put on the little red dress that hugs your curves in all the right places, you look hot and you own it...when you put on a social phero blend like cougar, your become the "it" girl, the witty, funny, sexy beast that everyone can't get enough of...be the beast....puuuuurr

yes the mini trial bottles =)

im looking for people to come my way and talk. im open to talk and am responsive but i dont think cougar gave me what i wanted...it made me feel invisible in a group setting..
people were fighting over each other for a chance to talk. they were all talking about themselves...i dont know if its them or if it was the mone -_-

i think the whole point of mones is to make people associate it with the person wearing it? i mean.....in the end all i got was a room full of people talking over one another LOL

Hmm. I'm stumped for you. I get what you're saying about everyone getting riled and talking but not necessarily making it all about you.

I guess what I'm thinking is that, though it's been hilarious when I'm center stage, more than half the fun, for me, is watching everything unfold and "steering" things. I like the stealthy moving in and watching the mones change the mood and then jumping in where opportunity allows. I don't want to say your expectations are too high because I've experienced what you're looking for. I'd have to say keep testing until you find "the one". That's SO cliche sounding, but true. I wonder if Love Potion Lumina or Popularity Potion would work for you? Just a couple to consider in the future

(02-03-2013 7:49 PM)NuTrix Wrote:  Hmm. I'm stumped for you. I get what you're saying about everyone getting riled and talking but not necessarily making it all about you.

I guess what I'm thinking is that, though it's been hilarious when I'm center stage, more than half the fun, for me, is watching everything unfold and "steering" things. I like the stealthy moving in and watching the mones change the mood and then jumping in where opportunity allows. I don't want to say your expectations are too high because I've experienced what you're looking for. I'd have to say keep testing until you find "the one". That's SO cliche sounding, but true. I wonder if Love Potion Lumina or Popularity Potion would work for you? Just a couple to consider in the future

almost giving up on cougar...i should've thought about the name....cougar..i mean..im in my mid 20s...why the heck did i buy a potion name cougar..LOL
yes popularity potion..
i still havent even mastered the fine art of Essence of Woman ...yet..

(02-04-2013 10:08 PM)missjelly Wrote:  almost giving up on cougar...i should've thought about the name....cougar..i mean..im in my mid 20s...why the heck did i buy a potion name cougar..LOL
yes popularity potion..
i still havent even mastered the fine art of Essence of Woman ...yet..

Maybe your just a cougar in training MissJelly?