(04-11-2018 1:45 PM)theLaw Wrote: I have to wonder if this is just a byproduct of the pussification of males in today's society (see plummeting sperm count and the rise of soyboys).
If a guy refuses to approach (see coward), then how is he going to provide for and protect his girl, not to mention his family.
This whole situation smacks of low self-confidence (not to mention Testosterone). Here's a thought: why not approach a girl and then lead (you know, like a man).........instead of waiting for her to make all of the decisions. Dudes today want to throw out all of the rules, but have nothing to replace it with.
Bunch of emotional children desperate to hand over any and all power to women.
^^ THIS! Exactly the truth. Despite artificial BS like feminism growing rampant over the last several decades, biologically speaking and deep down inside...women are STILL most attracted to REAL MEN...who can lead, give direction, protect the women and her children. It's the old story of women saying overtly one thing, while completely acting in the opposite. This was the design of nature.
Unfortunately, one complication to nature's grand design in today's world that has developed was the rise of feminism; the idea of the 'independent woman'...
The ramifications of this are such things like: 1) 'career women' who gain higher educations and they wish to be 'independent'...have their own money, prestige...actually compete with men for jobs. Hence, the skirts get into the thinking of 'I don't need to be dependent on nor be at the whim of any man.' In the old days, women were more dependent upon the guy; he was the breadwinner. The fact that the legal/socio system is unfairly tilted in the skirt's favor at least in the western world..doesn't help i.e., she can divorce you and take more than half of your hard earned estate.
2) In the good old days, it took two to tango....in order to breed...a skirt still needed a guy to make a baby. Nowadays, IVF clinics can solve this for the skirt with donated sperm from somebody anonymous. Hence, some of these broads who are asexual/lesbo/feminist can easily bypass the need for a husband. Problems for this? IF the offspring from said fertilization is a male, then he will most likely have no father figure to serve as a role model; to TEACH HIM HOW TO BE A MAN. End result: more pussification of current young males who don't know how to act, just like theLaw mentioned. Vicious circle perpetuates...BRAVE NEW WORLD. I know of such cases...they stayed by mommy's side...they are still living with mommy even after age 40 with no female prospects! They don't know how to approach...they HAVE NO CLUE..they think that by sitting home...somehow, some girl might knock on their door.
If offspring is female, mommy feminist will only hand down the same wacko role model...and thus, perpetuate the vicious circle...generation after generation.
Soy might be just a small fraction of what is going on. Much of the food supply is replete with either hormones or pesticides (which can exert an estrogenic effect). Part of feminization/estrogen dominance is also a function of the water that we drink...all the birth control shit that is swallowed by chicks just get pissed out and it doesn't go away in sewage treatment plants...hence, it ends up back in the runoff or groundwater. This may be the reason why certain animals like frogs or even alligators are turning up with ambiguous gonads or hermaphroditic! Even the air that we breathe is at question...air pollution has been shown to be slightly estrogenic. Taken as a composite, this is why we might be seeing lower sperm counts in guys and disrupted menses/lowered fertility in gals. The population's obesity might also be a less obvious reason as we know that adipose tissue has aromatase which can transform test to est. Decades ago, we know that people had more active lifestyles as well as healthier diets where obesity was rare...as well as many of today's diseases like diabetes, heart disease, hormonally driven cancers like breast/prostate cancers etc.
It looks like real men are becoming an endangered animal...SCARY!