So, 39 yr old male here. Been living with my wife for 10 years. Got kids and all. About halfway through, things slowed down to a crawl...lately, almost to a stop. When we have sex, it's amazing and hot. But the frequency is super low.

Every night, we lay in bed together for a while and I try here and there, but she just isn't in the mood enough. I'm lucky if it's once a week...and that's being kind.

Everything else is very positive in our relationship. We are great friends and happy with each other. I try to do romantic things for her often. She is the same age - 39.

SO...whaddoya think may work the best for me?

Thanks!

Mack