WOLF trumps all of the above in terms of attracting young women.

Taboo works fine for your uses. It is NOT an effeminate or friend-zone kind of blend. It has plenty of alpha and status. I would stick with it. If you still have problems, try playing hard to get. If you want to get dates with these girls or especially if you want to get them in bed, the disinhibition you've noticed is KEY. It is the most essential thing that all other pheromone effects revolve around, at least for that purpose.