Ok so hypothetically a girl(s) likes you. You're caught seen with other women.

What is your response when she confronts you?

1) explain the situation
2) be vague and mysterious

Which will increase her attraction?
Dsouza

Option 2, unless you are in an exclusive relationship with her there is no reason to explain yourself to her. And even if you are in an exclusive relationship with said women she should know and accept that you have platonic or non-platonic women in your life this where being vague and mysterious would come into play. Being seen with another women show's her that you are pre-selected which naturally will raise your value in her eyes. Women want what other women want.

I don't necessarily agree with the concept that vague equals raised value. Truthfully it depends on the combination of the existing relationship and it's rules of the road, the woman's internal value matrix and self confidence and how you feel about her. In my own life I've been in relationships where that scenario would result in my being shot, the gal being shot, my SO commenting, she sounded cute can we hook up with her, total indifference or road head.

I always tend toward option A...

Either. All women are different age. intellect, emotional stability, status etc all play a factor. Act vague and mysterious one might see you as a catch another woman might see you as dishonest.

(09-30-2015 2:08 PM)dsouza Wrote:  Ok so hypothetically a girl(s) likes you. You're caught seen with other women.

What is your response when she confronts you?

1) explain the situation
2) be vague and mysterious

Which will increase her attraction?
Dsouza

Own it. Nothing else. If you are not with her, I would literally say, yes, women like me and move on to another topic.

I've done both with women (AND men). If they're insecure, they won't trust you regardless...especially if your perceived value is so high. Even having an "innocent face" can be used against you, reasoning that you'd be the perfect player cause you can get away with anything.

MMM's fortune cookie reads, "PEOPLE SEE (YOU) EXACTLY WHO THEY ARE."

I'd respond with either, depending on how I'm feeling. Now without all the overthinking and make up, I'm on SuperJoy's team!

D, you're always giving away WAY TOO MUCH POWER when it comes to the opposite sex. The world is loaded with other women. Just saying.

(09-30-2015 6:44 PM)MMM Wrote:  MMM's fortune cookie reads, "PEOPLE SEE (YOU) EXACTLY WHO THEY ARE."

I'd respond with either, depending on how I'm feeling. Now without all the overthinking and make up, I'm on SuperJoy's team!

D, you're always giving away WAY TOO MUCH POWER when it comes to the opposite sex. The world is loaded with other women. Just saying.

Mmm

What power? I was in Long Term Relationship for 12 years it was all about give and take.. Friendship, marriage it's all about give and take not power. Dating which is what I'm getting back into is about power.

Still at early steps.
Dsouza

(09-30-2015 2:08 PM)dsouza Wrote:  Ok so hypothetically a girl(s) likes you. You're caught seen with other women.

What is your response when she confronts you?

1) explain the situation
2) be vague and mysterious

Which will increase her attraction?
Dsouza

3) suggest a threesome

always be transparent

You would be surprised at the amount of girls who would rather "share" a great guy then be exclusive with a guy who does nothing for them. My line is "i'm not looking for anything serious, but i'm not against it either. I may see other people but when I'm with you, i'm with you 100% i'm not thinking about anyone else"