No Blatant Invitation isn't just for one night stands, it's just for sex. You will get sexual attention from it.

OMG My head is in a whirl!

I thought all this was going to be simple for my age, and it isn't. Not at all. All the names, terms and abbreviations - I could plain and simply barf about now.

Everyone seems to know what each other is talking about and I feel like I've just been hauled off a deserted island from the late 16th century.

My mind is on overload of information I think reading web pages, articles, now posts and blogs and I'm a modern woman, geesh!

Great!

Better still you can't ask private advise until you practically spill your guts to the world and bring on world humiliation arghhh

So I wonder for a woman who has no problems with the opposite sex and no interest in attracting the same sex nor a multitude of males as one is happily married for 20 years. Naturally communication is no problem in any realm, nor socialisation, creativity, spontaneity, sex drive etc but..
What is suggested for experimentation within a marriage? Where obviously you're in a committed, monogamous relationship so the possibilities are endless, but reeking like a pole cat admittedly doesn't appeal to me.
Suggestions please and in simple English and a where to find these things this is new to my world just figured I'd give it a trial.

(12-11-2012 7:39 PM)missjelly Wrote:  =) check ur pm

Soooo msjelly, do you luv the guys and girls here yet and feel like you've found a second home?

If not, you will soon enough!

Yeah we've got some awesome folks here, don't we?

Oh, and lots of Canadians too!

(12-11-2012 8:52 PM)BeezKneez Wrote:  OMG My head is in a whirl!

I thought all this was going to be simple for my age, and it isn't. Not at all. All the names, terms and abbreviations - I could plain and simply barf about now.

Everyone seems to know what each other is talking about and I feel like I've just been hauled off a deserted island from the late 16th century.

My mind is on overload of information I think reading web pages, articles, now posts and blogs and I'm a modern woman, geesh!

Welcome to PheroTruth BeezKneez, yeah it may be a lot to learn, but its well worth the effort, and as you must already be starting to see we've got some great guys and girls here who'll help you every step of the way!

(12-11-2012 9:16 PM)BeezKneez Wrote:  Great!

Better still you can't ask private advise until you practically spill your guts to the world and bring on world humiliation arghhh

You can use the private messaging system once you have 5 posts under your belt. That's to prevent spammers from registering and harassing our members.

You can also post in the womens journal section, which is accessable only to other registered members.

See, you REALLY don't have to spill your guts for all the world to see, just the great folks on PheroTruth!

Thanks Mark!

I dunno I just was thinking and researching and I don't know what I was thinking. Its not like I need the boost, just figured was it something to experiment with and couldnt hurt especially as I plough through my bucket list and weigh up life, friendships etc.
Figured maybe I should leave almost no stone unturned. Maybe that's unnecessary.

It seems perhaps I don't have a need nor use for it the more I read about it, its uses and affects - I mean do people just use it for the sake of it to try it, when confidence is high and gosh well I simply don't know. I hardly need more friends, could do with less, I perform on stage for a living ( lol and no I'm not a stripper) theatre singing, acting etc..I'm very social and now I'm babbling. Meh

No one here "needs" pheromones or boosts to maintain an everyday life. (at least none that I am aware of). This little hobby is for fun.

We are not a band of social rejects that have no lives outside this forum. Everyone here is mostly normal.. and I use that term very loosely you pack of obsessed rabbit hole spelunkers..

Anyway, think of it as a very intelligent underground society that knows that we are just animals that think, breed, and even act like the other animals on this planet even at a primitive level such as smell. Ever had your sense of smell elicit some form of reaction within yourself? Maybe something from childhood, maybe something a bit more current.. this is scent memory.

Ever smelled your husband's scent and it create a bit of a stir within you? Ever come across a stranger who's smell absolutely repulsed you to no end? These are pheromones. They act on one of our most basic senses and yet it is one of the most primal forms of communication we possess. We here have our finger on the pulse of this little phenomenon.

Many in this world take their sense of sight, touch, taste for granted but many often forget about the awesome power of smell.

We happen to be quite ahead of the populace when it comes to understanding chemistry + sociology and the mysterious unheard music these two dance to.

I wasn't for one moment suggesting your were a bunch of desperadoes that needed anything so I am sorry if that was your perception I was merely just speaking aloud and speaking of meand my situationfor people to better understand where I was coming from and what I was trying to convey,if anyone cared to listen and discuss.
I just have always relied on 'natural' vices...myself, personality, commjnication, conversation etc etc I am much aware and in tune with sight, sound, touch, smell and so own.
The chemical induced world however is new to me as I voiced and was trying to understand as it itself is not so simple.

(12-11-2012 9:51 PM)BeezKneez Wrote:  It seems perhaps I don't have a need nor use for it the more I read about it, its uses and affects - I mean do people just use it for the sake of it to try it, when confidence is high and gosh well I simply don't know. I hardly need more friends, could do with less, I perform on stage for a living ( lol and no I'm not a stripper) theatre singing, acting etc..I'm very social and now I'm babbling. Meh

Maybe not, that's not for me or anyone else to decide. But, you were searching to fill some sort of curiousity or emptiness inside when you found us, and it's your choice whether to pursue that train of thought or not.

Whether you believe in religion or evolution or both, we have evolved! We know that dormant organs such as our tonsils or appendixes did once serve important purposes. We do have vemoronasal organs, which are what virtually every other mammal we know of use to communicate by way of pheromones with each other. We know that in lesser evolved mammals pheromones are vital to survival of the species, IE: when a female sow is exposed to Androstenone she will almost automatically assume a mating position.

Powerful response? Yes! Do we as humans respond in the same fashion? No! But, we do have the same organs and may have at one time responded in similar fashion.

We know that in mammals and insects virtually all behavior is controlled by pheromonal responses, and many species would either go extinct or have to evolve very, very rapidly to overcome missing pheromonal input.

We know that our every thought, feeling and behavior are controlled by chemical and electrical stimuli in our brains. We know that pheromones did at one time have direct pathways to the stimuli centers, and we know know that there are several current potential or even probable alternate chemical pathways.

So, you can choose whether you care to explore this further or walk away, accepting your life as it is, with no interst in exploring what might be resonsible for making us tick. The choice is yours, and if you decide to walk away I 'll not be upset, because I know that the decison was made by whichever neuron in your brain this topic happened to excite and was something that you had little actual control of, but was made by a biochenical reaction.

I wasn't coming after you. Just clarifying a bit.

The civilized world as we know it is not as natural as it seems. In fact every year we get farther and farther from our natural roots.

Pheromones are natural chemicals that all animals emit each day during normal metabolism that collect on the surface of the skin.

Everyday we as humans take a shower are washing these chemicals off and down the drain. Our cavemen ancestors did not do this and they were able to communicate better in this area. Lol, Yes things were quite a bit more stinky back then, but that is where a form of delicate balance is created when dealing with the current time.

In modern day we seem to have lost a large portion of the ability to talk with each other through the sense of smell. Basically we here are just replacing what is washed off in the ratios we deem fit to create very subtle, yet sometimes powerful, response. Some ratios can be steered toward being social, sexual, and/or comfortable when in the presence of others of our species.

Bees know exactly what to do and when to do it bc of pheromones. Same with ants and many insects. Dogs mark territory, etc etc. We are no different yet we lack their sophistication no matter how advanced we think we are compared to them. The father we progress as the dominant species on the planet, the less and less we seem to lose track of our basics.