Hello!

Obviously I am new, I have been reading about pheromones and copulins for about 12 hours today. I have ready so many contradicting websites and weeding out all the information has given me a head ache, so I figured I would ask.

I am looking for Phermones with Copulins, I assume. I am 30, he is 27; I came out of a 12 year relationship 3 months ago, and I want this man back. He left me, we continued to live together, he moved out about 3 weeks ago. Yet I have seen him the majority of the days for at least an hour and have talked to him on the phone and via texts every day. We went out to lunch yesterday, and I just plain want to pursue him. He complimented me on how I looked which I have not heard in a while and he was definitely checking me out when I took my coat off. I take him to and from work 4 days a week, and the last few days I have just wanted to lean over and kiss him goodnight when I dropped him off. That being said, I want him to want to kiss me and for me to not look like I am pursuing him since he left me and he knows I want him back. We had been very upset at one another, their were hurt feelings, feelings of regret, and a lot of anger. We get along now, and he made a comment to me that made it sound like he realized he f’ed up and that if things change in our lives that he would like to get back together. Which I agree that “those things” need to change and we are both working on them. I would like for us to get back together and work on them, not work on them and get back together, if that makes sense. I think we need to grow as a couple not grow as individuals, since that was the issue. (I don’t need relationship advice, but I was giving a background of what I am interested in).

All the different pheromones and the copulins have me confused. I am looking at Essence of a Women, but then I have seen on many sites that its not for a newbie, which I definitely am. I am looking for something that is really good and that will do the job. I don’t want to sleep with him off the bat, as he said “our relationship was sex based for a while and he wanted something more emotional” (yes you read that correctly) though I wouldn’t mind having sex or making him want to have sex with me.

I have been working with essential oils for a while and recently ordered Sandalwood and Jasmine to mix with jojoba as a carrier which I am thinking I can use as my mask if needed. We will primarily be going out to eat or the 25 minute ride to and from work, probably nothing with a lot of people or anything like that.

Any help would be greatly appreciated!

Essence of Women will raise a mans testosterone level. It'll probably make you appear more attractive to him, make him want to shag you senseless but that's all. Not much in the emotion department.

Essence of Women will require a cover perfume that you will need to apply after it dries down because many will find it offensive. Not sure the sandalwood and Jasmine will do it. Fruity or vanilla scents seem to cover best. Love Potion Perfumerie has OCCOs that is essentially Essence of Woman that is already perfumed so it doesn't require an additional cover. Pheromonexs also has Essence of Women in the form of Desire me/Desire me plus that have the option of adding scent for cover. Though Essence of women isn't necessary for what you're looking for, it would be a great add on to a "bonding" type pheromone for some sexy.

When I was trying to win back someone who seemed done with trying I used Perfect Match from Love Potion and it worked pretty well. It's described as a "soulmate" type of blend. Whenever I wear this it almost feels like we're transported back to the earlier stages of our relationship. Its a great bonding/emotional blend.

Connections from Pheromonexs is also great for bonding in my experience. I've added Connections to Tease with fantastic results in terms of relationship enhancing. Combined, it gave attraction and emotional depth.

I agree. OCCOs from Love Potion are the way to go cops wise. Perfect Match and Gotcha are also from Love Potion and are what you are looking for to help re-bond. Welcome to the forum.

I also vote for Gotcha from Love Potion . It's made both by boyfriend and myself noticeably more emotionally open , happy and loving to each other after going through some extended rough spots , and is for me at least the greatest overall bonding and relationship blend .

Thank you so much for the information. I am in the website now getting ready to order. My next question is X1, X2, x3 copulin strength. I would say the more the better, but I may be wrong. I am 5 foot tall about 95 lbs. Also for scent I am up in the air. He likes sweets, candy, and food smells, he used to absolutely go wild when I had this vanilla waffle shampoo or a cookie shampoo; so I was thinking either Red or Gold. I am not exactly a fan of vanilla thats why I did not chose White. I for sure know that Blue and Black are out. Should I be leaning more one way in scents because of the attraction I am trying to engage?

This is assuming that I am supposed to be getting the spray and not the other bottle?

More is not better when it comes to copulins. In the experiment astrid jutte conducted about copulins raising a mans testosterone, 3 drops were used in one gallon of water. Occos contain 30 drops of Essence of Woman . 2x and 3x may not be necessary. You can always just use more! Age plays a bigger factor in regards to how much you need to use.

There is an occo sampler where you get samples of all the occos and you can find out which you like the best.

You might want to check out the other bonding pheromones love potion has to offer as well because occos won't give you the emotional aspect of Pheromones you're looking for.

I am going to go ahead and get both, I contacted LovePotionPerfume.com and she stated that their is a two week turnaround time. I am still going to purchase them but is there anything I can get sooner, or is this a usual for a good product that is not commercialized?

I am on phermonesxs, which looks like I can get faster delivery. I see Desire Me, and Tease, but I do not see connections? Is it still made?

Connections is under unisexy sprays.

Seven to ten days for Love Potion for me because I live on the east coast...it may vary depending on how close to CA you live. They will ALWAYS be worth the wait...Love Potion ROCKS!

Relationship blends from Love Potion:
Perfect Match and Gotcha! work well for hubby and I....Oh, and BAM! Lots of b-nol for sharing/bonding and lots of cops for nookie

You've gotten some great advice already Good luck!