Do you believe that if a gay man wore a certain mone product around you, hoping to seduce you, that you would suddenly stop being heterosexual and have sex with him?

Of course not. Mones do not work that way. So equally, don't think that Xist or any other product is going to persuade your GF to have sex in a place or situation where she feels extremely uncomfortable (particularly since she has experienced a sexual trauma, so she already probably feels that sex is shameful).

Fix the location issue first, then try out some gentle, comforting (non-alpha) products.

Maybe she just wants to make sex more meaningful than an out door quickie.
She wants to make it slow and passionate?
Try to put some thought and creativity into the location and see how that goes.
Just my thoughts about it.

(11-01-2017 9:42 AM)obrobrio2000 Wrote:  She is just shy and, yes, she had a sexual trauma (I don't want to enter the details but I'm talking about a family member abuse).

Based on this statement, mones aren't your solution.
No mone will erase her feelings and memories of her abuse.
If she is shy, mones won't turn her into a public porn star either.
your expectations of what mones can do for you is clouding your results.

And at your age I would go with stuff like Nude, swoon, core.

Also, your other statement about being 18 and if you don't have sex now then when?... you have your whole life ahead of you... slow down ... don't put so much pressure on yourself and your girl. and girls are probably picking up on this eagerness to just have sex. and with the mones you're currently wearing you're probably giving off a sex maniac horndog vibe. this will scare off most girls in your age range. Although milfs should love it!! ... lol.

Try Androstadienone solo and then move to Dionysos

Fix your logistics and you'll be getting laid again no problem. Find a new spot similar to the old one.

Androstadienone and nude, Androstadienone will create feeling bonding and comfort while nude will hell with playfulness and ease. I am strongly for those two products mentioned earlier as they are one of my favorites.

That's regarding mones. Life and attitude advice has already been given prior to me

I concur with LIS in that your original post seemed like you had never with your gf and just wanted to break the ice but then you go on to point out that you had relations and now dont.

Gonna be harsh but
Either find a location that shes comfortable with.

If thats not the problem then as LIS pointed out maybe the childhood trauma has been in the back of her mind and now has surfaced to the forefront. If she is someone you believe or want a future with then respect her wishes until shes ready again.

If not, and thats all you want out of a relationship right now then quit pestering the girl and move on and find someone who will meet your needs. There no shame in going for what you want. The shame is staying with her and pressuring her into relations she doesnt want. So just move on. Use the pheromones and find what you want. Capishe?