Quote:Resisting the urge to quote "Saturday Night" by Elton John...

Horrible song, lol.

She don't believe in the right time or the wrong place
She's always liable to say...

(01-03-2020 7:12 PM)dsouza Wrote:  My own thoughts:

Whether it’s the bar scene or online dating, men who are good at pulling off ONS on a regular basis with the most beautiful women , are basically playing the numbers game.

Understandable, as the more you throw it out there, the more likely somebody...eventually...is going to respond. Not that I think that either method is better, or morally superior, etc; but I feel that the types that go out there, playing the numbers game, and those that adept at "target selection" are in two differing categories.

To me, at least, there is a notable difference between the guy that hits on 40 women in an evening and gets with one or two ladies per week and the guy that hits on 4 or 5 ladies per week and gets with one or two ladies per week. Quantitatively they're equal; but one must admit that they're decidedly different.

I meant play the numbers game with target selection. For me that’s mid twenties to early thirties 9’s and 10’s. And no I don’t meet 50 of them a day I wish. More like 3-5.

(01-03-2020 3:23 AM)dsouza Wrote:  So therefore for real life pickup would Tuesday evenings really be the best? Look at your average mall.... isn't it dead on a Tuesday?

IRL it's probably not Tuesday evenings

My own stomping ground is the beach, walking the dog. Dogs get walked every day of the week, and that is where and how I meet and interact with women, on any day. But I have noticed that women are generally more relaxed and open to approach from Friday through to Sunday, and I assume that this is down to less weekday work stress.
Also, it should be noted that to get a decent conversion rate where no alcohol is involved requires a different method and mindset. IMO mones really are in a league of their own in these circumstances.

This past Friday and Sat I couldn't even get seats at the bar I went to let alone see any girls... Too busy. Even poorer service.

I think I'm going to run with a thurs night.... Better service, more seats, and still busy enough to have a decent selection of people.

Not sure about Sun-Wed.... need to hit more bars on those days to see what they're like.

Def a good thread..took me while to get some info posted here.

(01-04-2020 9:03 PM)dsouza Wrote:  This past Friday and Sat I couldn't even get seats at the bar I went to let alone see any girls... Too busy. Even poorer service.

I personally think its better to be standing because I am more mobile and it feels more natural to walk up to and say hi to a woman who catches my eye. If sitting, its harder to keep an eye on what's going on around me without constantly turning my head.

I agree, but keep in mind I am not going to nightclubs with dance floors till 3 am looking for an SNL... The purpose of this thread was to pick the best days of the week to MEET women.

Since I'm usually out 4:30 pm to about 10 pm as I wake at 5 am and sleep at 11 pm these days I meet people during these hours at resto bar lounges. At these places , the management doesn't like people standing around... People are either seated at tables or the bar.

(01-05-2020 5:35 PM)dsouza Wrote:  People are either seated at tables or the bar.

If everyone is seated at tables or at the bar, how do you actually engage and meet the women? Do you wait until an attractive woman sits next to you?