Sorry, off topic, but I had to mention it.

I enjoy ur writing style MM. Tried to rep ya but I ran outta rep points for the day. Keep it coming. (I mean keep the writing style like that) It's more fun that way.

Thanks, Choccie baby. Appreciate it.

(12-08-2017 4:03 PM)WestCoastMm Wrote:  Thanks, Choccie baby. Appreciate it.

Haaaa. Choccie baby. I like that. Cheers mate.

I’d rather have a responsive human. Porn addiction is a disease - I took myself down that hole purposefully 1.5 years ago and it sucked to see what other guys live like. The anxiety was terrible, self esteem was shit and social skills dropped off.

I tried to rep you for Dr but I need to spread the love (rep points) before I do.

(12-08-2017 4:52 PM)BigDickBandit420 Wrote:  I’d rather have a responsive human. Porn addiction is a disease - I took myself down that hole purposefully 1.5 years ago and it sucked to see what other guys live like. The anxiety was terrible, self esteem was shit and social skills dropped off.

I tried to rep you for Dr but I need to spread the love (rep points) before I do.

Thanks heaps mate.

Inatead of porn, i rekon literotica is AWESOME. Man some lady authors are DIRTY. Lol. And i mean it in the most respectful fun way. The stuff they write, wow.

To me its way better than porn. It helps me to let me imagination run wild. And i mean WIIIILD. Lol.

Humble apologies. Am running off course. Back to cops. Lol.

(12-08-2017 3:50 PM)WestCoastMm Wrote:  *a majority* of men who would rather, if they can, have a real, breathing woman in bed.

What a man wants and what his brain is wired for are two completely different things.

A man addicted to high bandwidth internet porn can't be aroused by a living, breathing woman in bed. The dopamine system in his brain is just too down-regulated for a living, breathing woman to register. He would just lay there with her and feel nothing.

Hang on. I think we have a solution. At least part of it.

MM, buy ur hubby an exotic literature book for this christmas. Amd force him to read it. Lol. Instead of watching porn. Lol. May be his neuro transmitters might find a different path and have some good fun? I dont know. Am assuming its worth a shot.

(12-08-2017 4:57 PM)DrChocolate Wrote:  Thanks heaps mate.

Inatead of porn, i rekon literotica is AWESOME. Man some lady authors are DIRTY. Lol. And i mean it in the most respectful fun way. The stuff they write, wow.

To me its way better than porn. It helps me to let me imagination run wild. And i mean WIIIILD. Lol.

Humble apologies. Am running off course. Back to cops. Lol.

I'm actually writing one.

(12-08-2017 7:09 PM)WestCoastMm Wrote:  I'm actually writing one.

This is good. Write one that has ur hubby in it. And apply the law of attraction into it. Google it.

Basically, integrate what u really like him to do on ya, with a mixture of what HE likes into it, write it and present him as a gift for Christmas. If the guy doesn't like that gift, I'll come to the U.S. and slap him meself. (Just messing) but seriously though, I reckon he'll like it.

"he will make life hell for me and try to make me feel stupid, unattractive, awful, demanding, or whatever. He also freaks out and punishes me for days if I use the "wrong tone of voice."

"I've tried everything, trust me. I won't go into it. I appreciate the insights but really, I've been struggling with this for 12 years now"

"He just obviously dislikes me intensely but won't really let me go"


Walking on eggshells. Day after day.

How many times has he beaten you? Or threatened you or the children if you leave?

Make a plan and escape. You've been living in this hell for too long, and you've started to believe his lies.