It might be potent enough as well, that it's taking her some time to adjust to the signature. The firest few times I used xist (spray) around my s.o., she seemed distant, but I saw her staring at me initially from the other room, and I looked up and jokingly exclaimed "what! That's creepy!" Lmao. She was caught off guard so she was like "what! Don't look at me like that!" All laughing defensively, and I said "i saw you looking from my peripheral vision!" I enjoy throwing people off so this was one of those instances.

Later we were in the car and she was so quiet and weird. Much later than that she was tryinf to hug me and hold my hand. Then that evening she was all asking repeatedly if i loved her, and hugging me tighter than ever. This was a few days after she broke it off with me.

Adjustment period? You be the judge.

I find that Xist oil has a different signature to the spray, I think. I did not expect this. I guess after several weeks of exposing her to the spray, changing to the oil, and not using a cover initially, I think she sensed the change, hence the change of behaviour perhaps.

The oil does take time to warm up and equalise with the spray because later in the day she does open up. I think it's worth continuing with the oil, maybe apply it earlier and give it a longer time to take warm up. I think I will reduce the dosage a little, maybe one drop followed by running my fingers over a little of the top of the bottle for the second dose. Same app points.

On a side note, my Spanish client came again yesterday. Her cheeks started to flush after 15 minutes with me. I could not see any pupil dilation. At the 30 minute mark she said she had to leave as she was feeling hot even though it was a very cold day and there's no heating in my office.

Another side note. Another colleague, a good friend of my girl (OK, ex) in a different office, but we have been in the same meeting three times a week for the past three weeks has started showing signs of anger towards my girl. Effect of Xist? I will need to keep an eye on the other girls that attend the same meeting to see any changes in behavior.

More to follow, next week.

So the xist oil still has the same effect as spray, and just takes a bit to warm up? The exposures with the females you had meetings with, were these with the spray, oil, or a combination/transition from spray to oil over a period of weeks?

(10-17-2015 12:07 PM)BeautifulEnigma Wrote:  So the xist oil still has the same effect as spray, and just takes a bit to warm up? The exposures with the females you had meetings with, were these with the spray, oil, or a combination/transition from spray to oil over a period of weeks?

I think the effect is different. I feel that although she opens up after the oil warms up, she holds back a little. I used to think after the oil warms up she returns to normal as in the spray effect, but thinking back, I feel she holds back somewhat. Something I cannot put my finger on is different. I think the oil works on her differently, it could be that the signature is different and she is getting used to it, it could be that the oil is more potent once it warms up and it hits her harder and because she has a strong mind she reacts by holding back more. To be honest, I don't know, I am a little confused.

The exposures with the females in my meetings were with the sprays in previous weeks and only this week with the oil.

You mentioned combination/ transition. I am not sure if I understood you right, but it just gave me a thought - should I have gone with one drop oil and one spray as transition from spray to oil?

(10-17-2015 1:27 PM)sunnyday Wrote:  You mentioned combination/ transition. I am not sure if I understood you right, but it just gave me a thought - should I have gone with one drop oil and one spray as transition from spray to oil?

It may actually not be a bad idea, considering the diffusion times are different in terms of peaks and duration..

Some guys, for example, IIRC have used both cohesion oil and spray, so the spray hits immediately, but the oil still sits in the background doing its work long after the spray loses its potency hours in.

(10-17-2015 1:34 PM)BeautifulEnigma Wrote:  It may actually not be a bad idea, considering the diffusion times are different in terms of peaks and duration..

Some guys, for example, IIRC have used both cohesion oil and spray, so the spray hits immediately, but the oil still sits in the background doing its work long after the spray loses its potency hours in.

Thanks! I think that is what I will do next week. One spray and one drop oil.

No worries, hope it works out for you! Keep us posted, please!

(10-17-2015 2:31 PM)BeautifulEnigma Wrote:  No worries, hope it works out for you! Keep us posted, please!

For sure.

My girl (yes, I know, ex) has a heavy cold today, so I guess the mones had little to no effect on her, spray or oil. (I used 1x spray and 1 drop Xist oil today). She was miserable throughout the day but this is expected and understandable given her cold. Although there were two or three moments when she was particularly relaxed and laughed at a few of my jokes which were totally not funny, and she has not laughed at anything not funny since the breakup. This made me think that mones somehow got to her?

She should not be able to sense any mones with a heavy cold, right?

She plans to continue coming to work this week but I think, assuming she will not be able to sense any mones, I may give Xist a break and test out the other products I have, to see what effects they have on me. I am quite keen to find out if Imprint affects me, or Cohesion. Or ETFZ. Or GOA.

Or maybe to give myself a longer break from mones, I am currently mones free two days a week.

Any thoughts?

On a side note, the females I go to meetings with, remember them? I overheard a couple of them talking today that they wished my girl's illness goes on a long time and gets worse. Bitchiness or Xist at work? We have known them from before the breakup, and since the breakup they were completely on her side, I get the sense that their opinion of me is changing. If I have to rate them, I would say 8 and 9/10 looks wise, but 3 and 4 /10 in personality or attitude, so not for me.

Interesting times ahead, just wish I could continue using Xist with my girl though, and continue making progress.

Will keep reporting.

Maybe they wish your ex's cold continues because your ex is a bitch, even to her friends?