I dropped the SOB and just use Xist. I was hoping we would get closer, but the same thing happens every time. Talk, talk, talk. Some big conversation lasting 2 or more hours that ends up with her getting into this "I don't know if you really love me" thing. I always have to talk her down from this topic which takes a long time. At the end of this spiral, we are usually much closer. It is a lot of work.

Lately, she switched out of this and into talking about marriage and her desire for children.

Maybe it works too well.

Combine it with Scent of Eros or A4NA instead of SOB

(12-22-2015 2:15 AM)Randy Savage Wrote:  I dropped the SOB and just use Xist. I was hoping we would get closer, but the same thing happens every time. Talk, talk, talk. Some big conversation lasting 2 or more hours that ends up with her getting into this "I don't know if you really love me" thing. I always have to talk her down from this topic which takes a long time. At the end of this spiral, we are usually much closer. It is a lot of work.

Lately, she switched out of this and into talking about marriage and her desire for children.

Maybe it works too well.

Talk, talk, talk = GETTING CLOSER. Dosage/s you've been testing with?

Thanks!

In fact, SOB might be the worst thing you can use here. Using cops is too risky here.

I dropped the SOB and just use Xist
I think he just used Xist only and no SOB according to that statement.

Yeah, I know. It might actually be the source of her confusion towards his commitment, though.

(12-22-2015 6:01 AM)MMM Wrote:  Talk, talk, talk = GETTING CLOSER. Dosage/s you've been testing with?

Thanks!

3 drops of oil. 2 on wrist. 1 on neck.

Don't use any pheromone around her and see.

Just from reading your other post and this one, it seems possible that you may already have a high natural pheromone signature, your girl has an advanced sensitivity to scents, or both. You may be over amplifying it at any measure.

Something that none of us here know that isn't mentioned and so often left out of the equation is what goes on in the relationship beyond any chemical influence. Initial attraction is often largely chemistry. Long term goes beyond initial attraction. Women have an instinct to "nest". Their brain chemistry senses things and their observation senses others. They equate things like romance, little extra things, a good provider, healthy habits, good listener, etc.

As far as pheromones go, a little alpha and a lot of cuddle is my two cents. Copulins? I don't think so.

Chemical attraction only goes so far for anything real, fulfilling, and long term. You can't depend on it to make up for other necessary elements that may be missing in a relationship.

Like I said, none of us here know anything more than what you shared about the chemical influencing. Something is causing the insecurity. Maybe it's just her personality. Who knows. But one thing for sure. Long term and real can't be held or repaired with something that is not.

How is the rest of the relationship? Is there romance? Little things that show you think about her during the day? Etc?