http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/03/1...catatonic/

Quote:Steady, unbreakable eye contact and smooth, slow, controlled strides toward her so that she has a moment to savor her anticipation — these are the simplest and quickest ways for a man to rattle a woman with his intoxicating presence. It works because, as real life observation and science both prove, women are viscerally sexually excited by dominant and overconfident men. And nothing projects both those masculine traits better or faster than alpha body language and direct eye contact. Staring a woman down until she lowers her eyes or looks askance will trigger the submissiveness reflex, and that is a place where she secretly yearns to be.

It’s not as easy as it sounds. Try holding eye contact as long as possible with random men and women. Assume a relaxed or smiling expression so that you aren’t mistaken for an angry commuter having a bad day. Start by doing it with people passing you on the sidewalk going the opposite direction, so you know an end to the discomfort is not long off. Even in those walk-by sidewalk situations, where a mere few seconds of eye lock is all that’s required of you, you’ll find it difficult to hold a stranger’s eyes for longer than a split second. The difficulty level will go up if your eye partner is a hot girl or a dominant man meeting you pupil a pupil.

After a few days of this, something almost magical happens. You notice that men break eye contact before you do, and look to the ground. Forced to look up at you (most will be shorter than you), women return your gaze hungrily, uneasily, wonderment gripping their facial expressions, and if your vision is sharp enough you can make out a nearly imperceptible parting of their lips. You begin to feel dominant. And that feeling translates into real dominance and an attitudinal shift, for above all the thing that is attractive about alpha males is their attitude.

interesting i know that i think about it the last paragraph makes alot of sense

Good read...and quite true...I'm very dominant..but I LOVE an alpha guy...and if I lock eyes with one...as long as he looks 'appealing,' strong, and confident, I will definitely break away, with a smirk...ya got me! Sort of like a game. LOL. Every woman wants to be protected, alpha men do give off a 'protector' vibe. And most women, dominant or not, will bow down so her man can 'wear the pants' and as long as he's doing his job as a man, she'll have no reason to be dominant in regular matters.

But if his body language screams 'cocky douche bag' I'll stare his ass down!

lol Sporty you seem like so many of these women i know who love to play power games with men.

(03-15-2012 9:27 PM)SportyCurve5 Wrote:  Good read...and quite true...I'm very dominant..but I LOVE an alpha guy...and if I lock eyes with one...as long as he looks 'appealing,' strong, and confident, I will definitely break away, with a smirk...ya got me! Sort of like a game. LOL. Every woman wants to be protected, alpha men do give off a 'protector' vibe. And most women, dominant or not, will bow down so her man can 'wear the pants' and as long as he's doing his job as a man, she'll have no reason to be dominant in regular matters.

But if his body language screams 'cocky douche bag' I'll stare his ass down!

See I am pretty alpha but if someone screams cocky douche bag to me I will snicker and shake my head...like look at this asshole, too bad, too bad. My BF is Very alpha too and I am happy to lead certain things but don't disagree with me on something that matters to me because then MY alpha will come out and whip your alpha into submission.

(03-15-2012 9:35 PM)Pheroman Wrote:  lol Sporty you seem like so many of these women i know who love to play power games with men.

LOL!! Not necessarily a game, but I can be super aggressive with a guy if he's not being 'strong' enough...sort of to get him to be a little more alpha? Like reverse psychology, If that makes sense. Whether youre an alpha, or not, I think men should be dominant in certain roles with women. And I have been 'submissive' in certain situations, just because I know sometimes guys need that little boost to, well, 'feel like a man.' lol. But submissive isn't generally my character, at first glance, many people are intimidated, until they actually talk to me...I guess I give off that 'alpha bitch' vibe But usually 'alpha bitch' doesn't come out unless I gotta get work done, and people are lagging, or you piss me off. Other than that, I'm cool as a cuke strong and direct...but make me laugh, I melt like a freakin marshmallow!

(03-16-2012 8:54 AM)halo0073 Wrote:  ...don't disagree with me on something that matters to me because then MY alpha will come out and whip your alpha into submission.

LMAO!! Same here!! Or if I'm told I'm wrong about something, that I know for a fact I am 100% right about, I hate that, especially since I have no problem admitting I'm wrong. My BF (who's also alpha, but HATES to be wrong) will swear me down about certain things, even in my own job! We didnt go to school for the same thing, and when he tries to battle me on clinical info, I just want to punch him in the face. I's like me (a healthcare practicioner) trying to tell a baker how to make a certain fancy dessert (Other than boxed cakes, I have NO clue about dessert making). lol

(03-15-2012 8:07 PM)preck Wrote:  interesting i know that i think about it the last paragraph makes alot of sense

lol sorry for my awfull spelling

Lol!

halo0073 Wrote:  My BF is Very alpha too and I am happy to lead certain things but don't disagree with me on something that matters to me because then MY alpha will come out and whip your alpha into submission.

Hilarious! I love it hehe.

Great post on eyecontact. Eyecontact, body-language (and an awareness of KINO) was what made me the "ladies man" I was in highschool.

Good reminder of a very valuabe point!

I had a girl tell me that she liked how much eye contact I made with her while we were sitting on a park bench years ago, LOL. She had a heart of gold and beautiful clear blue eyes; how could I not get lost in them