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so i finally met this girl on the internet. We've been texting back and forth for a month.

on my date. I didn't want a typical expensive dinner so we went for a walk in the park. I got the typical ioi: hair play, chattiness, hugs and arrangement for a 2nd date, but today everything fell when i asking about our arrangement. She made an excuse that she was busy and the movie date we arrange she would call me if anything.

this has also has happen to me in the club. A lot of ioi flopping hair, walk bys, and smiles. i would dance with them until the end of the night. Once i ask them for their number typical excuse is they have a bf. Or if they give me their number they would say they feel uncomfortable when i ask them out.

i'm 29, Asian 5'10 157 lbs not ugly. These are asians i'm meeting.

is it wise for me to ask them when did everything fall apart when the date felt so good?