you think that's the Xsist? or the Nude/cohesion+social(Xsist etc.) fall in love combo of AS....

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you think that's the Xsist? or the Nude/cohesion+social(Xsist etc.) fall in love combo of AS....

I think its the long time exsposure of Xist

I've used all those products and personally, I think the XiSt is what caused her to realize her feelings more than any of the other products (but it could have been a combination). I feel for you, hope things all work out well. It sounds like you both have some genuine feelings there. Keep using XiSt around her and if she really does care the way it sounds like she does, it will help move things along pretty smoothly. I think I'll wear my London scented XiSt tonight around my lady.

(06-06-2013 2:38 PM)phertest Wrote:  You guys arent gonna believe this... in fact Im still coming to terms with this myself. Well, there is a female friend I mention a fair bit in my postings and always test stuff around her, and I used xsist last weekend around her, and just to throw in a curve ball I added Nude, and cohesion, and a little Turn Up The Heat.

Some history. Weve beenn friends for the last 2 years and practically family. In fact, most people think were related because we introduce ourselves as cousins bexcause our families are close. Well the last few months weve had fights and arguments just pop outta nowhere about silly things... it was on the rocks...or so I thouht. Anyway, the lasht time I saw her we left on bad terms, she was pissed that I didnt take religion seriously , and I didnt want to elaborate because shed probably get even angrier. It wasnt really about that, but more the fact she has to dig info out of me. Fast forward to thr last few days. Were cool. Except...

We started playing this ask a question game thriugh text, and I admitted that I liked her for a bried period of time. I had nothing to lose as she has a bf and I wouldnt be too seriously interested if she was single because were very close. She was surprised, but didnt say she liked me back... I asked her if she did too, and she said yhe same thing back. 2 days later, were on the phone and she seemed upset so naturally I asked what was up. She didnt say shit but to save thr details of forcing it out if her, she admitted she liked me since the start if this year. Not just the brief period she mentioned earlier.

I know this siunds like some high school shit, but bare with me.

I asked her why she liked me so much, and she said she realized when me, her boyfriend, and her bro were kicking it outside she missed me the most(on the day I used xsist).. she feels so comfortable and happy around me. She mentioned that the arguments may have comr from not telling me or bottled emotions.

Im not going to go for it because Im good friends with the bf, but fuck I feel for the guy. Honestly. This girl is perfect , has a career path, familu values, beauty and is a straight up catch.

I told her I do think about it every now and then, and we asked eachother if eed be shocked if either of us kissed... which was a no... dating? Under the right circumsances shed have no problem .

Not sure what happens next...

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Uhhh do what I did.

Go get her.

I'm still with her and screw it, eat or be eaten. The orginal IBF (105a, xist) now is what I used with my current gf, she's with her bf whom I knew. We ended up getting together and being happy. What can ya do ya know, it happens. If you want it don't let anything get in your way. If she's going to be happier with you and you two share that connection then why not.

if its a girl you can imagine yourself with for a long time, then its prolly something you should go after. Especially if shes going to be happier with you then the friend. too many times we worry about our friends feelings instead of our own or the girls. I think if any of our friends are put in these situations a lot of them would go after the girl

Wow. Just when I thought that my fiancé was getting used to XiSt because I wasn't seeing as many OVERT reactions from her, it strikes again. I wear this around her a lot. At least 4 times a week. Today she confided in me how much she loved me and that she hasn't mentioned setting a wedding date because she was so in love with me that she wants to make everything PERFECT for the wedding. My thought would have been that if she was in love with me she'd want to marry me right away but its almost like she is afraid that she isn't good enough anymore.

Apparently she's been (since I started using XiSt) looking up wedding venues as well as looking up Vegas wedding chapels. It seems that the XiSt has pushed her from being comfortably engaged in perpetuity to wanted to make sure she marries me before I lose interest in her (I can't see that happening as she is an amazing woman). Smart, cute and sassy. Triple threat.

XiSt is my favorite product and I don't see that changing any time soon. It affects women in a long term relationship (makes it fresh and new) as well as any new women around. Men are a bit more buddy buddy but in a friendly way and I feel happy and relaxed. LOVE this stuff.

Thanks for the input guys. To be blunt, I do think about it every now and then and shes more of what I need than what I want, thats the scary part. Because it would be a serious commitment, and I don't want to deal with backlash from mutual friends. I think I'll just leave it... the phrase "don't shit where you eat" comes to mind. Do you think its fair to continue using xsist to see what happens?

It was only the first exposure to exist last week -- probably for a good 12-15 hours. and I;ve used tons of different things around her since last year, but none got the reaction I got when I combined exist with the kitchen sink of other stuff.

Very interesting...

On a side note. I've looked at the ingredients and the only things I'm not familiar with in xsist is the epiallopregnanolone, but it seems to jive with almost everything I mixed it with. However, I did feel burnt out after about 4-6 hours and a small spray of Instant Shine seemed to help along with a another spray of exsist.

I can relate to the what you need vs what you want (and see my post about what to where when you aren't exactly liked to understand her friends). My Beauty is exactly what I needed but when we met, I kept telling myself that for various reasons she wasn't what I 'wanted'. I decided to go ahead and see how things progressed and we are in an amazing relationship. It has its ups and downs like any but she's my best friend in addition to my romantic partner.

If you care for her, go for it.

(06-06-2013 10:58 PM)phertest Wrote:   shes more of what I need than what I want, thats the scary part. Because it would be a serious commitment, and I don't want to deal with backlash from mutual friends. I think I'll just leave it... the phrase "don't shit where you eat" comes to mind. Do you think its fair to continue using xsist to see what happens?

It would be foolish for you to not go for it. You'll always wonder about it, what if we were together . You said it yourself its what you need. The reward is worth the risk. You should wear xist around her only if you plan on following through. Anything else would just cause Drama in that situation.

I'll add that I am still interested in one of her friends and she is fully aware of this. During the "coming clean" conversation I asked her whether she was jealous or not that me and her friend was close. She stated that she would be afraid to lose me, but I think she was deliberately trying to stop me from seeing her. I asked her to invite her out with us several times this year, but would have to tell her multiple times before it happened.

Shes still with her bf but she told me that she doesn't feel right about him anymore. I do care because she is my best friend, but the consequences will be hard to deal with from mutual friends. They know us as family, and I don't wanna be known as the sneaky backdoor guy.

I'll be seeing her this weekend so I'll update you guys on what happens.