Cohesion 4W has been my staple to work or impress females (colleages, boss, interviewers...) and it works really well.
What other blends are out there for the same results? I'm eyeing G2, but it seems to contain no -dienone, does any of you girls have some experience with it?
I have Balm Bomb and Exotique, but none of them seems to make other women to like me as with Cohesion4W.
Althought I never had any catty reactions from cops (only from -none blends), women often don't like me much, I have no idea why, it has allways been like that.
I have lots of female friends of course, and they love me, but other than that women usually avoid me or ignore me.
Anyone relates to this problem or have any suggestion regarding mones (even blends not specifically made for this)?
Females tend to dislike me even without having ever talked to me. Being standoffish doesn't help. Haha. Alpha blends exacerbate this for me.
I don't know of any blends that impress women..except for LFM and LFN...but not on it's own. I have to steer it that way. They are impressed in an awestruck sort of way, but won't approach me first.
My FAV blend to wear around women is Heart & Soul. I don't even really need to steer this phero. Women let the compliments flow like champagne on new years eve. It never incites cattiness, even with cops. For me, H&S seems to soften my edges and makes me seem more approachable to them.
I'm a big
of H&S!
Thank you Isis! I will order HS
I had a sample about a year ago but I think I never wore it around women who are not already my good friends or family. I'll give it a proper try now.
How do you steer blends with this purpose?
Women look up to me with temptress, lfm and alpha Donna, but they won't approach or act friendly. With none they're clearly aggressive towards me.
My worst problem are the women who are hierarchically superior to me, because they always act like I'm defying them or threatening them or something. No matter how much I smile or act "beta" on purpose. Cohesion4W was a game change for me, I couldn't believe the difference! But I want to explore rather than be forced to wear the same blend every time I go to work
Oh man, if only I had been hip to this for when I started at my last job!! I just ordered levitation blend from lpmp. Might it have a similar effect? I have a few co-workers who are still a little rude to me, even though about 75% of them love me. I'm excited to try it out, also hoping it turns out to boost my mood when I'm crabby
Halo suggested G2 for interactions with my MIL and it actually worked good on my mom too. Neither women are mean or bristly or anything like that so much as they dominate conversation with rapid fire rambling. G2 actually chilled them out and backed them down a bit. I've worn it to work, but not for the specific purpose of needing to quell persnickety female co-workers, but it was received well when I wore it.
I've only ever used Donna Amore socially. That's a happy, fun one, but maybe a little to "light hearted" for your intent.
I've only begun playing with H&S but that could very well be a great option. It's worked very well on men and women when I've worn it socially, at work and at home (hubs warmed up to that one so SCORE!)
Do they respond kindly to Est? Or are they more likely to perceive it as weak? Est has always made people respond kindly to me. This happens with H&S and Achar. If Est turns you into a target, Treasured Hearts has a similar invitation to interact that H&S does without the Est.
(05-07-2014 12:52 AM)NuTrix Wrote: [ -> ]Halo suggested G2 for interactions with my MIL and it actually worked good on my mom too. Neither women are mean or bristly or anything like that so much as they dominate conversation with rapid fire rambling. G2 actually chilled them out and backed them down a bit.
Just out of curiosity is G2 and MIL from LPMP?
(05-07-2014 2:30 PM)andromun Wrote: [ -> ]Just out of curiosity is G2 and MIL from LPMP?
G2 is from LPMP, but MIL...you def can't get from LPMP..probably wouldn't want it either.
MIL I believe means Mother in Law.
(05-06-2014 4:28 AM)Akelah Wrote: [ -> ]Thank you Isis! I will order HS I had a sample about a year ago but I think I never wore it around women who are not already my good friends or family. I'll give it a proper try now.
How do you steer blends with this purpose?
Women look up to me with temptress, lfm and alpha Donna, but they won't approach or act friendly. With none they're clearly aggressive towards me.
My worst problem are the women who are hierarchically superior to me, because they always act like I'm defying them or threatening them or something. No matter how much I smile or act "beta" on purpose. Cohesion4W was a game change for me, I couldn't believe the difference! But I want to explore rather than be forced to wear the same blend every time I go to work
What I mean by steering, is when I do approach women or attempt to "break the ice" they're usually more receptive but will interact with me in a more intimidated way. Dunno what blends would work with women who think theyre hierarchically superior. I haven't encountered this problem since I believe I fall in the more Alpha side. But as Nutrix has said up there, to consider how they would react to someone with EST. I've encountered a lady who didn't like me wearing CB and would ignore me and brush me off. She was fine with H&S but still didn't take me seriously. She is Alpha herself, there is no doubt she would have disliked me if I had met her wearing CB or H&S. I think women who are more on the very dominant side tend to dislike "weak" seeming women. Not to stereotype, but the women who have reacted like this to me have usually been women of color. i.e. african americans, which would make sense in a way.
Hahaha....now I get it. Thanks
(05-07-2014 12:52 AM)NuTrix Wrote: [ -> ][color=#FF1493Do they respond kindly to Est? Or are they more likely to perceive it as weak? Est has always made people respond kindly to me. This happens with H&S and Achar. If Est turns you into a target, Treasured Hearts has a similar invitation to interact that H&S does without the Est.[/color]
Thanks, I'll try G2 also than. I wanted that female connection and trust I feel with cohesion. I'm sure MIL are perfect subjects to this
People in general respond well when I wear Est. They treat me kind and want me near, often are complimentary. I'm positive I can get away with some mistakes when I wear Esty blends, people forgive me and avoid mentioning, as I was a child who is innocent. But it doesn't bring much interactivity as more alpha blends full of epirone and Androstanone. I like Est heavy blends specially when I dress all princess like and want to look sweet. Otherwise I prefer all around/balanced and alpha blends.