As I'm ordering more and more mones and blends to try out, I'm starting to have a problem... where will I put them all?? I don't want my BF to find them, I don't know how would he react but it wouldn't be a good reaction for sure!
So I'm starting this thread in hope your hiding places will give me some good ideas. I'll start:
I hide Desire Me inside the Pink Sugar box, in our suite bathroom. The to-go's (Instant Sexiness/A, Instant Sexiness/B, She Wolf) are in my purse, always with me, inside a little mobile bag.
Now I have Glace, Desire Me Plus and 4 samples of Love Potion coming, I can't have it all in my purse LOL! Need some good and handy places
I totally thought this was about something else ;) I have a nice box that i keep all of mine in on a shelf in my bedroom. BUT BF knows about them and couldn't be less interested. I am sure he thinks they are hokey which is fine by me.
Mine are all out in the open - because hello - I have a blue million - you can't hide a stash of almost 10k collected over 7 years. And he knows. He HATES them but he knows. So - it creates friction periodically.
I keep a small travel bag that goes in my handbag that is opaque that hides my reapply stash. I have a medium sized bag for when we go on trips together.
And I never, never, never discuss with him what I am using and why I am using them - anymore. EVER. I prefer to avoid the fight.
I've also figured out which one's give him headaches and never ever wear those molecules around him. That took some time to isolate. Heavy A'nol blends give him a head ache and make him an a$$hole. You will have to figure out with your SO those same things - so watch very very carefully.
I do however give him some that are in men's cologne - from Love Potion - and they are divided up into - you can wear with me only - and work safe. Because as I have said before - I don't share my toys. And I'm not letting him out of the house with one of the smoking hot phero's.
He freaked himself out. He didn't listen one day and used the "wear with me only" cologne - and he's pretty conservative - and more than one direct report - tried to open him. Hello Sexual Harassment Suit. No thank you. And then when he stopped at the book store - a total 4/10 basically asked him to do the dirty after a Deer in the headlights in the attached Starbucks. Out of the blue. Whereupon he fled. Mr. Conservative - not used to a 4/10 - because that's not what he has at home - and not used to all this drama at work - said - "I don't like these things and I'm not wearing them any more. Period."
So now - if he wears them - it's because I picked it out and applied it myself because we are going on a date thank you and he can deal. And it will benefit you later...
These things *can* put a lot of pressure on a relationship. If I had it to do all over again - I would not admit it and I'd stash them. But again - looking at the arsenal - you really can't hide that arsenal. It takes up 3 feet of my dresser top. It's insane. So - I'd want to hide it - but I still wouldn't be able to.
But I have so much fun with them I wouldn't not have them around.
I stash mine in a small cardboard box. Then I put the box inside a large plastic tote box with pillows and blankets on top. People know not to go snooping through my stuff because I would flip shit on them if they did. But I am still careful and keep them stashed away.
Oh shit sorry...
Just saw this was for ladies only.
(07-17-2012 2:00 PM)Arrow Wrote: [ -> ]I stash mine in a small cardboard box. Then I put the box inside a large plastic tote box with pillows and blankets on top. People know not to go snooping through my stuff because I would flip shit on them if they did. But I am still careful and keep them stashed away.
Oh shit sorry...
Just saw this was for ladies only.
Meh - I really don't suspect Akelah will care.
The issue ends up being the same for all of us - regardless of genders.
I put them with my business supplies (work envelopes, business cards, etc). My boyfriend would never look there. If he found them, whatever. I will say they were free samples and I wanted to keep them a secret for his birthday to ramp up the sex (or something like that). Anyhow, do you have any work supplies he'll never look through? That's where I'd go.
Dont wanna be controversial but i feel like guys wouldnt care too much if they find out his Girlfriend\partner is using mones,but in another hand if you a guy and your girl finds this little secret, be ready for the drama lol....
I may be wrong but thats what i think after reading some comments
(07-17-2012 2:00 PM)Arrow Wrote: [ -> ]Oh shit sorry...
Just saw this was for ladies only.
Ahaha Shelly's right, it's the same, I just asked the ladies because their hidding places could be more like mine, as we have idk purses and jewelery boxes, whatever
all opinions are welcome. Maybe I should ask the boys where THEY wouldn't be looking for anything lol
(07-17-2012 5:06 PM)preck Wrote: [ -> ]Dont wanna be controversial but i feel like guys wouldnt care too much if they find out his Girlfriend\partner is using mones,but in another hand if you a guy and your girl finds this little secret, be ready for the drama lol....
I may be wrong but thats what i think after reading some comments
It's complicated.. and each man is a man... you being one user of mones yourself probably wouldn't mind, but I bet my BF would say I manipulated him, or ask why the hell am I using this animal-sexy-things around, to work etc... Not risking that kind of fights. It seems more natural this way.
(07-17-2012 6:00 PM)Akelah Wrote: [ -> ]It's complicated.. and each man is a man... you being one user of mones yourself probably wouldn't mind, but I bet my BF would say I manipulated him, or ask why the hell am I using this animal-sexy-things around, to work etc... Not risking that kind of fights. It seems more natural this way.
Ding ding ding! Give Akelah a fish or whatever crap prize we are handing out to THE WINNER!
That's it in a nutshell.
All of it - in one parapraph - years of fights and pissiness condensensed into a few measly sentences.
That's all you need to know about why you don't tell your SO about Pheromones. Because when you start dating they are confident and sexy - one day they eat too much pizza.
You don't care. You think they are hot anyway. But their self confidence? Well that day it's in the shitter. And you happen to be rocking' Popularity Potion And some Cops (Or Wolf plus AV - stay with me here) and suddenly WHAMMO....
Their confidence issues are all the fault of your evil Phero usage - not that extra donut. And you - you sprayed. And you are going straight to hell for your manipulating ways.
So - if you are smart? Find a box. In the corner. Don't share. Except here. Join the Phero protection program. But at home? Don't be Louis the Lip.
Word to the Wise. Just Saying'
If you hide "desire me" in a "pink sugar" box that indicates your SO isn't concerned with you having perfume. And it is perfume.
Why not just leave it at that?