04-03-2013, 9:38 PM
Okay, so I don't seek out attention in groups, but I don't run from it anymore, either, so I'm making some progress! However, when I do get attention in group settings, it's generally from the men, and because of it, the women in the group tend to either get competitive with me, or act jealous and catty. Or I'll get friendliness from the women, and the men pretty much ignore me.
I've got a couple of group events coming up where I'd like to be a little more "in the spotlight" but without the jealousy or too much competition from the gals I'll be with (a little friendly competition's fine, but "friendly" isn't what I'm currently getting!). I already have Glace for social, but though it seems to enhance my other products, it just doesn't seem to do much on its own for me--and even with other products, it tends to get others to tell me their opinions about everything, but not so much care about my opinion, iykwim.
I'm also on a limited budget, so I can't just order several things and try them out (as much as I'd LOVE to!). It would be really nice if people wanted to pay for my drinks at one of the events, but I'm not necessarily expecting that result!

But I do want to order something that will maybe give me a little boost of ... I don't know... awe? popularity? Something to help me get a little more noticed without being blatantly sexual. You know, a "VIP" vibe or something like that. Where people want to be around me, and maybe want to know what I think.
Hmmm... now that I read over what I've written, I feel like I've seen a description of a product somewhere that would fit, but I can't recall where I read it!
Any ideas? Thanks for any suggestions you can offer!
Oh, and if it helps, I'm married and in my late 30's.
I've got a couple of group events coming up where I'd like to be a little more "in the spotlight" but without the jealousy or too much competition from the gals I'll be with (a little friendly competition's fine, but "friendly" isn't what I'm currently getting!). I already have Glace for social, but though it seems to enhance my other products, it just doesn't seem to do much on its own for me--and even with other products, it tends to get others to tell me their opinions about everything, but not so much care about my opinion, iykwim.
I'm also on a limited budget, so I can't just order several things and try them out (as much as I'd LOVE to!). It would be really nice if people wanted to pay for my drinks at one of the events, but I'm not necessarily expecting that result!

But I do want to order something that will maybe give me a little boost of ... I don't know... awe? popularity? Something to help me get a little more noticed without being blatantly sexual. You know, a "VIP" vibe or something like that. Where people want to be around me, and maybe want to know what I think.
Hmmm... now that I read over what I've written, I feel like I've seen a description of a product somewhere that would fit, but I can't recall where I read it!
Any ideas? Thanks for any suggestions you can offer!
Oh, and if it helps, I'm married and in my late 30's.



