(01-17-2014 4:24 PM)dsouza Wrote:  There's a lot of articles on google describing this but many are so different from each other its hard to really follow one fully.. Its better to stick to some tried and true principles..

I wonder if we can make some generalizations that pertain to just about all women:

a) stimulate the clitoris.. Some women like their lips stimulated more than the clitoris in terms of licking, some like both, some like mostly clitoris.. I was wondering what your double attack method is to cover all bases.. I'm not into doing the alphabet on a womans clitoris.. Its too tongue tiring.. I figure straight up and down licks and side to side licks. and circles for the clitoris. A method to the madness or just change it up ? Whats your take?

b) stimulate the lips of the vagina.. Now you'll need to stimulate the clitoris simultaneously.. Too much neglect of that area and she may not orgasm.. So do you guys use your hands on the lips to part them touch them rub them, or do you lick there too? If you do what type of licks to cover such a huge area? long st Bernard licks? Some women like to be finger fucked while being given oral.. Do you find most women are opposed or like this or that it takes away from intercourse later? I was always taught to finger fuck while clit licking.

c) How many of you like to squeeze her butt the whole time your giving oral.. Lots of nerve endings there too.

d) Making sounds of approval.. Its good to moan like you are enjoying yourself so she doesn't think she smells bad down there or something.. If you don't talk you have to show approval someway so moaning is good.


e) ORDER. Knowing when to go down there.. Most women unlike porn stars, like to be kissed first, then after that they'll guide you to boobs, then after that you can kiss and lick their stomach, then go down to their thighs kissing it and lickng it, and finally move in for the pussy. If you rush to the boob or pussy first she may not get wet very easily or get upset.. So its kissing then to boobs, if she doesn't like boobs , back to kissing, then she'll lead you there, and so on until you get to oral sex.

f) how long do you go for? A woman may need a few minutes to come or may be multi orgasmic and need 30.. Lots of tired tongues here. I think a key point is to make her comfortable.. If shes COMFORTABLE shes more likely to enjoy relaxing and guiding you so you know what she likes anyways instead of just figuring it out on your own.

Any points you'd like to change or add..???

I think I've always been better at oral sex than intercourse... to me intercourse is like the grand finale not the game.

(01-17-2014 5:55 PM)doctordonald Wrote:  I like the alphabet or my name or her name or something.

When she gives out squeals or hollas, I keep the part of the pattern I licked when she howled.

Also, sticking finger in vagina with a come hither motion stimulates the g spot. Some like it in and out or side to side, but try keeping the finger curl in there too to or in some other way stimulate that spongy place while you work tongue magic.

She will come a time or two or three. Then she will let you know she is ready for something else.

(01-17-2014 6:25 PM)dsouza Wrote:  Some good multitasking there. Do you only focus on the clitoris and finger in vagina or do you lick the lips of vagina too? I like to think even more multitasking is in order.. spell a name or pattern till she moans, finger her with a come hither motion to stimulate g spot with one hand, and squeeze her ass with the other... All together that should be plenty of constant stimulation.

I think i'll try that out tonight and she how it goes.

(01-18-2014 5:36 PM)MMM Wrote:  Lick it like you love it! And when she lovingly falls over the edge, keep the same pace no matter how much your brain says "ATTACK!"

Alphabets, Alphabets backwards, numbers all the way up to 1000, love notes, clock-wise and counter clock-wise clitoral circles, suck the hood on the clit deep into your mouth and hum your favorite tune, get on one side and give her butterfly flicks, puppy licks: long and loving, cat licks: short and loving, snake licks: quick, soft and loving, suck the surrounding flesh of the clit deep into your mouth and release, the male version of a blow job: suck her clit like you ewwww! could be sucking a cock, and the list is long.

Read all you want, and as you test what you've discovered, make sure you UNDERSTAND that some female spots differ: LISTEN TO HER BODY.

Before I get naked, I get it in writing, "I HEREBY AUTHORIZE THE MMM TO FEAST ON MY DELICIOUSNESS FOR AT LEAST AN HOUR!" My kind of viagra!

(01-19-2014 12:07 PM)Fishdude Wrote:  The comment that she will keep you around longer if you do this,perhaps but to her you may be a supplicating pussy licker. Do a great job and put it out sparingly when she cooks the best diner. You will be amazed at what she will do to get some more.

I just tell the gals that she made me feel special so I made her cum hard.
You heard of Pavlovs dog. Well just like that. Having that skill and enjoying it is your ace card.

(01-19-2014 12:07 PM)Fishdude Wrote:  The comment that she will keep you around longer if you do this,perhaps but to her you may be a supplicating pussy licker. Do a great job and put it out sparingly when she cooks the best diner. You will be amazed at what she will do to get some more.

I just tell the gals that she made me feel special so I made her cum hard.
You heard of Pavlovs dog. Well just like that. Having that skill and enjoying it is your ace card.

(01-19-2014 3:08 PM)Fishdude Wrote:  A piece of bread to do what? My fwb just drove me home after getting me drunk and taking advantage of me . Heard an AC/DC song and enjoyed it on the way. Made me think of you. For those about to Rock We salute you. You are truly awesome with your endeavour (devour?) so I salute you.

FD

Another thing I like you MMM and I do like to argue and sometimes be that Devils Advocate because it makes for great conversational exchanges.

I do love going down but do limit the women to that. And they love that to a point that it's all they think about sometimes. One gal had held my head down there and when I was ready to sink her with my flesh torpedo she never let me up. Well not till she was satisfied. Now that's hot.

Another gal, I would just go down on her when she was on the phone.We would be sitting naked on her sofa and she would display her lovely girl for me.... Sorry not interested at the moment. Then the phone would ring and I would get busy just to distract her. Now women are smarter than men and for some reason when I was over she would be getting lots of phone calls? Hmmmm

(01-19-2014 11:04 PM)Fishdude Wrote:  See women don't touch this thread. Why? They will let you know

(03-09-2014 5:35 AM)seeusmile Wrote:  O my so much information overload for one that has no experience in these sexual spectrum. But I strive to be a good lover!
Just like MMM, I like to give too!! I can't always take!

Hopefully I learn to get good in this cunnilingus voyage and hope my mouth stays in one peace because you only get one :3.

(01-19-2014 9:53 PM)Fishdude Wrote:  So triple M ladies do not want to talk about oral sex? In my experiences I have found that many of lady do not feel clean about themselves and do not want you to go down on them..now myself being 50 years old never been married I have had sex with over 200 women. Not kidding. And many feel that they may not be clean and don't want you to have a negative experience.

They do give blowjobs but that's what they see in the movies and seems to be expected.

I should start a thread on what is the best blowjob one has received. But another day.