Ok so this weekend i went to U of I in urbana-champaign to party it up. I went down there with a friend named phil. we got there at around 10, showered at one of our friends place, i put on some mones, and went to the bar. So what I put on, so i got some new cool stuff from liquid alchemy labs that im testing out! So i applied 2 sprays wolf to my chest, 6" nude, and 8" Scent of Eros . Ok so we get there im all excited to be at my future school (im transferring there ) and we both get about 3 beers in us... so this is when we started to look for the girls... and is also when shit went down...

phil and I were standing talking to each other when 2 girls walked up to us and entered our group and just went super flirt on our asses... like they were lookin to fuck... and they wanted it from us... no exaggeration here. Ok so within about 15 seconds of flirting with these girls... my friend phil grabbed BOTH girls, 1 with each arm, and said lets go to the bars ladies. He then turns his head towards me and says (ill be right back, john). and walks away...

I was pissed as most of you guys would... and now i jsut threw it behind me cuz im in fucking urbana and i wanna have fun. so now a little bit later in the night after phil fucked it up with the 2 girls he popped into a group of 5 girls. (So me and him were in mid conversation and he jsut left while i was in mid-sentance and jumped into the group, no joke) and started talking... and i obviously walked over there like a good wingman and attempted to join the group too...
and here is the most disrespectful thing i've ever had happen to me in my entire life... as i was walking over to the group i tap phil on the shoulder so he can make an opening like any decent wingman would... and instead.. get this... he puts his HAND on my FACE!!! and pushes me away and says NO NOT YET THEY'RE NOT READY FOR YOU!! and turns right back in....

im in complete shock right now that this happend... he wasnt even drunk, i wasnt even drunk... i couldnt believe he did this. oh yeah but wait theres more...

I said fuck it and waited a few min and tried to walk back into the group 1 more time... instead of tapping him on the shoulder and letting him make an opening, he waited for an opening and hopped in... and the second i was in i said hey everyone... phil looked at me, put his hand on my face AGAIN!!!!!!!!! and pushed me out of the group and yelled NO NOT YET!!!!

If i wasnt at a bar, in the town where im going to go to school, i would have puched him... i ended up walking back to my friends place alone and i punched a parking meter on the way back... possible have a fractured knuckle now.. but what ever..


just what would you guys do right now... i have a text message all typed up that im about to send to phil saying i dont want you in my life anymore, never talk to me again... and im about delete him off facebook and break all connections i have to him... sound reasonable? I think so... I mean i may have had some extra -none on me... but no matter how much none is one someone, you don't do this... rule number 1 of the bro code.


thanks everyone for your time reading this

Oh and sorry i was too busy ranting to say much about the mones though... liquid alchemy labs has some GOODDD STUFFF i've never been in a bar/club before and have gotten that many IOI's EVER!! not even close... Wolf is probably my new favorite now... I actually feel like an alpha male/leader type like a wolf when i wear it... and the girls DEFINITELY notice it... I coulda gotten laid 4 times over if it wasn't for my friend... well exfriend and if i didn't leave the bar out of pure anger.

sorry, jsut thought this extra was needed :]

Dude, I suggest you could establish ground rules with your pal BEFORE bar-hopping with romance in mind. Was he really working on convincing the ladies to accept BOTH of you, or, was he really trying to hog the ladies? I would have explained to you, "ok, if I get some ladies' attention, stand back, and wait for my signal that you should come over. I will touch my left ear, or clasp my hands together, and that is your signal to come over, shake hands with me to indicate we are bros, and introduce yourself to the ladies."

hey skull, I've actually had long talks with him on this subject before... and no matter what ground rules we establish he does what ever he can to get himself laid and doesn't care about anyone else... we've actually had VERY VERY long conversations about picking up women and i dont know if you're familiar with the show called "the pick up artist" from VH1... but we've followed those pick up rules cuz.. they actually work... but phil just always ends up being selfish. And no he didn't grab both those girls to try to convince the other one to be with me or something... i dont know how experience you are in clubs/bars or picking up women but when 2 girls approach 2 guys and they clearly picked their target... like girl 1 grabbed my arm and girl 2 grabbed phils arm before any verbal communication started and they said "hey guys having fun?" girl 1 looking at me and girl 2 looking at him. and we say yes and then right here at this moment phil grabs girl 1 from me and says "lets get some drinks ladies" and tells me he'll brb and NEVER COMES BACK... thats called a cock block, not an attempt to get us both laid.

Sorry if i didn't break down how this conversation went clearly the first time.

Where did you apply the Wolf and how much did you wear?

Did you wear anything with it?

(09-20-2010 6:20 PM)JAYCEE Wrote:  Where did you apply the Wolf and how much did you wear?

Did you wear anything with it?

2 sprays wolf: 1 on neck and 1 on upper chest
6" nude: 3" left wrist 3" right wrist
8" Scent of Eros : 4" left wrist 4" right wrist

all covered up with a quick spray of AXE (i know AXE, but i forgot my cologne at home and its all i had)

Back to the original question - I would not even send him a text or anything. Just get rid of him. Gone.

In my working world - he would have gotten his ass beaten on the spot. No kidding.

That sucks man, that guy is not your friend.

Don't waste your time texting him with anything. the guy disrespected you in a big way, you don't treat a buddy like that. Nothing you say to him is going to make him understand because he does not give a crap. Besides, it will look like your are trying to validate yourself to him. It puts you in a low position. You will look and sound like an abused chick. Then the next thing you know, he has said some nice apologies and you guys are out again and he is making a fool of you like always, all so that he looks cool.

(09-22-2010 2:38 PM)Pheromonk Wrote:  That sucks man, that guy is not your friend.

Don't waste your time texting him with anything. the guy disrespected you in a big way, you don't treat a buddy like that. Nothing you say to him is going to make him understand because he does not give a crap. Besides, it will look like your are trying to validate yourself to him. It puts you in a low position. You will look and sound like an abused chick. Then the next thing you know, he has said some nice apologies and you guys are out again and he is making a fool of you like always, all so that he looks cool.

you know that's a really good point. i'd never think to look at it like im a chick who just broke up with him LMAO... but it makes sense. So since its been about 4 days since the incident, i never sent him a text or anything. I jsut deleted him from facebook, and just removed him from my life completely. im going to ignore him if he tries to contact me and pretend to not hear him if he tries to come up to me in person or sees me on campus... lol god damn i do sound like a chick right now ahaha. oh well fuck it.

Ignore him? Did you forget about him pushing his hand into your face? There's an old saying, I think it goes something like: "What's good for the goose is good for the gander."

But, for better impact, do it when there are girls around!