(04-30-2015 6:44 PM)kimosabe Wrote:  And stop thinking of her as how many-ever notches above you.

I don't care if she's a millionairess or the most popular movie star in the world. Because when she's giving me a blowjob, she'll be down on her knees with my dick in her mouth, admiringly looking up at me into my intense, manly eyes.

Best advice ever. Thank you for the mindset. ;)

I was once told that a big difference between rich and poor people was the minimum amount of money they thought they needed to survive. At first the argument seemed to be that people think they need what they're accustomed to. But in actuality, it's more that people tend to go out and get what they think they need and/or deserve. It's the same way in dating. If you've got a mindset that you're in a certain "league" then you're going to date primarily within that league, possibly expect easy hook-ups from those you consider below you and get really nervous or not even try with those who you think are above you. But it's all mindset. We're all humans and we all deal with insecurities and how we feel about ourselves often doesn't jive with how others feel about us. I've met women I have no interest in whatsoever who thought they were the hottest thing to walk the earth, and I've bagged hotties who needed coaxing to let me bang them with the lights on. I'm a middle-aged guy with a gut and man boobs. I've struggled with dandruff and body acne. I have only a high school education and do blue-collar work that pays the bills with a little left over for going out on occasion. I've got neither the looks nor the money to have any business going after some of the women I've hooked up with, and yet I did and was successful. Last year I was dating a stripper, after that I got a smokin hottie with a college education. The trick is to start going after what you want and thinking that you deserve to have it rather than to focus on what you think you can get. Ambition takes your attractiveness up a notch, anyway. The first few times, you'll be wondering how you got 'em, after that you realize maybe you were wrong about your league in the first place. Just my 2c. PS, everything I've done up to this point, I've done without mones sweetening the deal. Now that I've added mones, I'm unstoppable.

I second that advice. I've gone through and done the same thing as Cornfed. I used to laugh at how some people would say that with the right attitude anything is possible but now I understand what they were talking about. Life is good.

(Yesterday 1:55 PM)Cornfed Wrote:  I was once told that a big difference between rich and poor people was the minimum amount of money they thought they needed to survive. At first the argument seemed to be that people think they need what they're accustomed to. But in actuality, it's more that people tend to go out and get what they think they need and/or deserve. It's the same way in dating. If you've got a mindset that you're in a certain "league" then you're going to date primarily within that league, possibly expect easy hook-ups from those you consider below you and get really nervous or not even try with those who you think are above you. But it's all mindset. We're all humans and we all deal with insecurities and how we feel about ourselves often doesn't jive with how others feel about us. I've met women I have no interest in whatsoever who thought they were the hottest thing to walk the earth, and I've bagged hotties who needed coaxing to let me bang them with the lights on. I'm a middle-aged guy with a gut and man boobs. I've struggled with dandruff and body acne. I have only a high school education and do blue-collar work that pays the bills with a little left over for going out on occasion. I've got neither the looks nor the money to have any business going after some of the women I've hooked up with, and yet I did and was successful. Last year I was dating a stripper, after that I got a smokin hottie with a college education. The trick is to start going after what you want and thinking that you deserve to have it rather than to focus on what you think you can get. Ambition takes your attractiveness up a notch, anyway. The first few times, you'll be wondering how you got 'em, after that you realize maybe you were wrong about your league in the first place. Just my 2c. PS, everything I've done up to this point, I've done without mones sweetening the deal. Now that I've added mones, I'm unstoppable.