Nope - it'll be one of those things that my children get a random chill - you know the one where you say it's nothing - someone just walked over my grave - and they will not know it's because they came awful close to to having Mom discuss that very topic graphically - and just ducked that bullet.

(08-28-2012 7:20 PM)Shelly B Wrote:  I just don't understand this thread at all. At all.

I don't understand why it exists. I don't understand women who don't have them....I don't get any of it.

Shakes head. Get's another diet sprite...

I have these conversations with some of my girlfriends and they may as be speaking greek - except for my greek girlfriend. We *never* have this conversation. We get it.

Shakes head again.

Where is the personal accountability in making sure they know their own bodies, how they work, what rocks their world, making sure they are getting it, and if they aren't getting it after making sure the guy knows it (the right way - the fun way - not the slot a goes in slot b way) - bolting? Really?

WHAT IS the matter with these women?

Whatever. Auntie Shelly can't take everybody to Cirillas and explain it to them...

There's a YouTube Series my children will be ever so glad will never get made "Auntie Shelly explains all things Mones and Moans to you"

It exists to tell guys about something that may help them please a woman better. Pretty valuable if you ask me especially since it has spurred good conversation about some important things.

Fair enough. And actually for all the men who gave explicit tips on how to pull that off - you did more service on your end of that that end of the bargain...the number of guests hovering in this thread is insane...

So women all over owe you both a debt of gratitude...

I am just struck again by a cartoon I saw the other day - where it said calories burned in a real orgasm - 315, calories spent faking - 800.

I laughed because I thought - yeah - most of them on a repeat performance since you gave reward on behavior that didn't do it for you!

I get frustrated because some women think you guys should read their minds and know the path to the golden key...everybody's thrills are different- why should you?! Yes - basic anatomy - yes.

Hello - duh - I spent a goodly amount of time reading up on basic male anatomy and practice, practice, practice....who wants to be merely a "meh" in someone's memory?! I am not going to be anyone's flash across the memory banks thanks...if I thought enough of you to get naked - I think enough of you that you are going to be thinking of me for a LONG time to come and that's a fact Jack.

I wish someone taught that...

Very good Thundr

OK guys - 20+ years of marriage:

(08-22-2012 3:03 AM)thundr Wrote:  Yes theres a G spot in women. I'll tell you exactly where it is. When a female is laying on her back it is about 1-2 inches on the front side of the vaginal top wall right behind the pubic mound. If you feel around on that top wall you will feel a slightly rough spot that is often slightly raised. Apply a bit of upward pressure with a slightly curled finger and massage. You can even use your other hand to gently press down on the lower abdomen right above the pubic bone for added stimulation.

Yes. You can even also press gently with your hand while she is "riding the bull" as Thundr says below. This - extra pressure rubbing her G-Spot while she is getting the right angle or "handling" her clitoris will make you a hero.

(08-22-2012 3:03 AM)thundr Wrote:  --Legs up and hips tilted upward. you can smash that thing to pieces. IME the further back the thighs the easier it is to hit.

Throw a pillow under her butt. Or if your/her bed is high enough, have her lay back with her butt on the edge of the bed, you stand there. Right angle and you are rubbing the G Spot. Once again you can gently push down on her abdomen and/or easily use your other thumb to rub her clitoris.

(08-22-2012 3:03 AM)thundr Wrote:  --Finger and oral. use a finger to manipulate the G, press down with other hand on the lower belly and get to work on the clitoris with some mouth action. She will soak your face but it will be worth it.

Yes.

(08-22-2012 3:03 AM)thundr Wrote:  --A high mount in the doggy can rub the G as well. Give her the reach around in conjunction and watch what happens.

She will love you for the reacharound.

(08-22-2012 3:03 AM)thundr Wrote:  --Often a woman riding the bull can find her own G and will increase the pressure her clit receives manually by either her own finger, or using your own pubic mound. Let her do this, it is a good thing[i].

See above. A very good thing. Fun to watch when she does it manually herself.

(08-29-2012 7:29 AM)Shelly B Wrote:  I get frustrated because some women think you guys should read their minds and know the path to the golden key...everybody's thrills are different- why should you?! Yes - basic anatomy - yes.

Exactly! Everyone is a little different and I know there are a lot of reasons and a lot of psychology behind why people will not say "do this or do it that way". Please tell me. Happy to do it that way for you.

It was and sometimes continues to be one of the hardest things - convincing Mrs. QG that although I love her very much no matter how well I know her I cannot read her mind. And that can be on a variety of things - not just sex. If you want X tonight instead of Y, just tell me. Happy to oblige you.

(08-28-2012 7:20 PM)Shelly B Wrote:  I just don't understand this thread at all. At all.

I don't understand why it exists. I don't understand women who don't have them....I don't get any of it.

Shakes head. Get's another diet sprite...

I have these conversations with some of my girlfriends and they may as be speaking greek - except for my greek girlfriend. We *never* have this conversation. We get it.

Shakes head again.

Where is the personal accountability in making sure they know their own bodies, how they work, what rocks their world, making sure they are getting it, and if they aren't getting it after making sure the guy knows it (the right way - the fun way - not the slot a goes in slot b way) - bolting? Really?

WHAT IS the matter with these women?

Whatever. Auntie Shelly can't take everybody to Cirillas and explain it to them...

There's a YouTube Series my children will be ever so glad will never get made "Auntie Shelly explains all things Mones and Moans to you"

Shelly,

I think the answer was given by you and the other female posters. I would bet that most girlfriends talk about not receiving them, but very few talk about how to receive them...or how to intensify them. If you had told me about pheromones 2 months ago and this forum didn't exist, I don't know if I would have taken the leap, but I'm very glad I did. I learn something new from this resource everyday. Perhaps there should be a female orgasm forum for ladies with special membership accommodations for pherotruth men. I'm sure that both parties would learn something new.

DL1

Sex is fun

(08-29-2012 8:32 AM)Wanghan Wrote:  Sex is fun

See actually Wanghan - it's not always. Sex can and has at parts of my life been an every loving chore - or at worst - something I feared, dreaded and would rather have poked out an eye rather than do.

DarkLord - here's the best single tip I can give you - and it's missed again and again.

It's first and foremost for women - how they feel about their partner. We don't have to love you. We do have to *want* you. For women - you get in our heads *first* - everything else follows. Our brain is our single biggest sex organ. Get in our brain in a bad way - we would rather gouge out our eyes. Example - Ex. Mr. Shelly. I'd rather have it sewn shut for the rest of my life than submit to that again.

How you get in our head? Well that's up to the individual woman...you have to figure that out by her personality, likes/dislikes, etc - and it changes at different points in a relationship.

Getting a call early in a relationship telling me I'm the sexiest thing going and you can't wait to get me into bed tonight and then describe whatever bad thing you have planned will have me spending the rest of the day extrapolating - and trust me - my brain is creative - and you? You have hours of an excessively fun evening ahead - courtesy of one 5 minute phone call.

Later in a relationship - simply calling for no reason to say you love me? And something mushy that would only make sense if you were in the relationship? Yeah - there's a cookie for that - again - well worth the 5 minute investment of time.

My point is - get in our heads. Figure out a way to knock out work, kids, bills, life - for 5 minutes. Push out all the other stuff that crowds out who we really are underneath our chores and the mountain of things women get heaped with - remind us we are women first - dead sexy and you want us.

Take the five minutes. In whatever way your woman is going to hear it. Do that. Do it once a week and your life get's a lot better. Do it twice a week and you are about to find yourself in a million times better relationship overall. Invest that little bit of time and that time is going to come back to you tenfold.

But don't be surprised at first if she is a little shocked if you haven't done it before. She may be "WTF is this?" Don't give up. Keep doing it. Keep doing it until she trusts that you *mean* it. Because the fact she didn't trust that you meant it? You need to go examine why that is. You have bigger issues in your relationship than you thought. And you best decide if you are going to fix them. There is fixing to do my friend. Either fix or brace yourself. Because she is doing the long slow withdraw to the door - and you have missed the signs.

Like I said - get in our head. It's our biggest sex organ. You won't regret it. And failing to do it costs you both.

Maybe someone should remind mine of this. $hit head.

ACTUALLY - no volunteers - really. I know a couple of you are going to PM and raise your hand. He'll pull his own head out his oriface or he won't. Hugs to you. I'm venting. And mad. And over it. GAHHHHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Post # 38. Nominated!

True words of wisdom as well as awesome guidance!


Advice that all men should know, and also others should be reminded of. Never take your relationship for granted.


Regards,

CG45