Good news: a old friend of mine (alluded to her in journal as one of the two women I would be interested in long terming with) has broken up with her idiot father of her kid. He is an abusive jerk.

She and I was together for a fling, then we went ways.

We remet via social media. She came down about a year ago for a couple weeks. third base, though that isn't the real point. Best time I had in a long time.

She gets with butthole guys. I have gotten with wench women, lol. But have started to own my own self-worth. In the last year, I have decided that she is the only one I know of that has always wanted and known how to be honest and sane.

I have been letting her know that I am interested. She is skittish, which is understandable. She knows I am trustworthy, kind, helpful. But she is skittish about committing and just moving in from one butt guy to another that might go sour. I want her to trust me and be attracted to me. I want to be her tough guy who loves her. This is the case.

What do y'all think about my using 2-3 alfa sprays next time I see her? It will annoy me if, as much as we respect each other, she ends up with some asshole or we end up not at least trying it.

would marry this one. Like tomorrow. Suggestions are appreciated, though I am on a budget and can't order a bunch of stuff. Alfa dream stuff seems to work very well for me btw. Would like to start playing with combos of glace, certo, alfa, and l2k if y'all can suggest this to they with that in mind.