(07-16-2016 9:03 AM)dotleroy Wrote:  1. Why give up a lift?
2. Did she not want her mother to meet me?
3. Did she worry about her mother telling her partner about me?
4. If she was worried then why did she want to continue being alone with me? Were the mones confusing her brain?

Leroy,

It would be easier to answer these questions if we knew what happened during the rest of your walk home. She may have been enjoying your company, and wanted it to last longer. She may have been turned on and therefore uncomfortable around her mom. She may be counting her steps with her cell phone and didn't want to miss her badge for the day (yes, this is important for some people).

Worry less about what's going on in her brain, and enjoy the time with her. If you want to know more about her, test her reactions to you. Does she react well when you invade her personal space? to your casual touch? Are her pupils dilated? Is she spacing out? Is she laughing at things you say that weren't funny?

Were I in your shoes, I would not mess around with a girl about to be married, especially if there had been a past mutual attraction. She's on an emotional roller coaster, and I could easily sow chaos, reap the whirlwind, and end up with a lot of regrets.

It would also be nice if you did not continue that conversation in a thread titled " Grail of Affection". You added two products to GOA, therefore rendering your application a combo.

It sounds like you are over analyzing the situation. For some of us, it can be a little difficult at first getting used to what's a hit and what isn't. Putting on a pheromone product used to make me feel like a lot of things are hits that probably weren't. You have to ask yourself "would that have happened if i wasnt wearing mones?" or, better still, "is that action within the normal for that person and what i know of how that person to be?". I know you stated that you forgot what you were wearing, but you should still try and see things in pairs to judge a reaction like what you experienced. How was your body language? How was hers?

These things, on top of really diving in to a person on an individual level are things that take a lot of time to understand and notate. After all, judging a person's actions or reactions can only be compared to that person, individually. I have found taking things in context based on that person as an individual is the only way to judge change or growth.

In any event, like what SS said, this belongs in a hit report thread or a combo thread. We all make mistakes.

has anybody try GOA with BW ?