Hey there killler,
First of all, welcome to pherotruth. This forum is not only about pheromones, but also alot of info on general self improvement.
Quote:I don`t know anything about pheromones.
Well i can tell you they will help open doors, but mostly you will still have to open them. There are in no way the "spray on and get laid" item some think.
Quote:What would be the first pheromone you would suggest me to try? What would be the best and first phero for me to try,in order to get chicks sexually motivated,and I`ll take it from there somewhat.
Well it depends on what you want.. looking from your post you want things to turn sexual. But the thing you want is not always the thing you need. Let me explain:
An encounter is much more then i like him/her lets have sex! There's diffirent things to take into account:
Perception:
You don't get a second chance to make a first impression

With people we don't know, the first thing we do is form an oppinion about them from what we can see. (people say "don't judge a book by its cover" but everybody does this!) This is why we dress up nice, make sure we have a nice haircut, smell nice etc.. You can improve yourself a bit, but you cant change alot about how you look. Mostly perception will dictate if the person will be interested in getting to know you!
In your case:
29 years old.
Handsome face.
Big muscles from lifting weights(no steroids).
Fat waist,not athletic naturally.
Alot of women like muscle's and i'm sure with a handsome face you will have quite a bit of interest. In general i think you have quite the "alpa vibe" going and will intimidate most women just by the way you look. How tall are you and whats your weight?
Because of this i would for sure go with a social/approuchable product and not sexual/alpha.
Interaction:
Once there is interest, you're social skills will come into play. (the getting to know phase) Like you said you're somewhat shy. Remember that most girls will not just walk upto a guy they don't know and are interested in. They will LET YOU KNOW they are interested, but most will wait for you to make the move! So its upto you! A social product will also help you here to keep the conversation going and make you a bit more outgoing/talkative.
The way you handle yourself here is sometimes called "your game" and it will determine if there will be any sort of follow up (friends/sex/possible relationship/not interested/need to get to know/...)
This is also were your personality will come into play. Women, much more then men are about conversation and personality.. There's a 1000 ways how you can fuck up with a conversation.. but luckely you can train this.
If you passed the interaction test, you will quickly notice if she is still interested or not. But the interaction part is key!
The image vs the real you.
Now do take into account that the women you don't know will have formed an image of you judging on what they can see. (perception) So the ones that show interest not knowing you, will expect you to behave a certain way somewhat in line with the way they perceived you..
Quote:I have always had girlfriends but women seem not to be sexually attracted to me much nowadays,outside of a relationship.
Quote:Not like my best friend,a bald,andro-masculine guy with an average face and average salary,and a semi-athletic body,who gets a different girl in the sack every other night.
You know what I`m saying?
Often muscular guys will attract women looking for a "bad boy" type guy. Because this is what they expect from your looks. Maybe you're just a nice/bit shy guy and the image they had formed in their mind (from your looks) does not hold up anymore.. so the interest fades. The girls NOT looking for a "bad boy" type and a more serious relationship might see you as a meat head and stay clear of you because of this.
I'm willing to bet that you didn't "pick up" your former girlfriends in a club or something, but you got together with them after them getting to know you because you had a common friend, went to school together, or any situation that gave them the chance and time to look past your exterior.
Like para said, he's (your friend) doing something that you are not.. and im quite sure it has to do with the interaction part of it.. I think his personality is closer to what people expect from his looks then with you.. Is he more of a "bad boy" type of guy?
I hope it makes some sence and helps out.
Cheers,
Buzzy