(02-21-2019 2:39 PM)Gladen Wrote: Pheroman;
From your initial post, when starting this thread, I got the impression that you've used this ploy yourself.
Can you quantify your results above playing the single guy?
Myself, I've never hidden my marriage (the obverse: the single Man game, I guess) and honestly never even thought about if the fact that I am married helps or hinders my results.
I have seen and lived enough to fill many Jackie Collins novels.
Many times I get a the question "Are you married?" because I rarely invite women to my home, try to keep private and i get busy and dont call/txt and often dont care.
Often times they have made up their mind and dont believe me when i say no I am not.
This rarely lead to anything happening, though she would just move on to someone else.
One time a few yrs ago instead of saying the usual no i just said "yeah, you should see her! She is away for a few days".
The resulting effect was what i can now compare to someone throwing a shot of old New Pheromone Additive on my chest.
I literally couldnt get away from her. She had a few drinks and was overtly hitting on me.
So I would say "cant go to my place we would have to do it in the car" she said "ok lets go".
I was just fishing for reactions to see what happens.
I had seen it many times with those who were married, and dont forget many here wear cops to increase attraction.
But there always a first. So I just did a few experiments to see what happens.
As the single man, they are often looking for a way out. Some even to be "rescued".
And almost always they come on strong, but then you get the "not yet" speech.
which is why if you are >30:
The worst thing you can say to any women is "I am single".
Single man game is not what you want to be doing, unless you have some situational "alpha" that you can use to your advantage (And of course they probably wont believe you anyway).
Because when you say "I am single" the first thing in her mind is "WTF is wrong with him ".
And the older you get, the worse she thinks.