Vibe is that state of being in which you are at your most attractive, most open to new experience and most likely to be getting real IOIs whether you are wearing mones or not.

1. Sex. Post-orgasm is simply the best state to be in for meeting new women. I will make a concerted attempt to meet new women right after spending the weekend with an FWB. Use this state of relaxed contentedness, of desireless buoyancy of spirit to hit on new women. If you have a trsy with a lover planned, think ahead and plan your social engagements for the next few days.

2. Intense exercise. The best form I find is some form of circuit training, i.e., resistance exercise with a cardio element. The endorphins from the cardio and the pleasant ache of well-worked and relaxed muscles along with the sense of accomplishment that comes with hard training is great for one's vibe. It mirrors #1 in some respect. Upside is you can do it at your convenience, downside is that it only really lasts a few hours so plan your post-gym socialising.

3. Sunbathing. Yes, in old Blighty, this may rarely happen, but you get a good dose of vitamin D from the sun if you expose as much of your skin as is legal for as long as you can. Whether its the increased testosterone from the vitamin D or simply the improved mood from those hours of sunlight relaxing, I find the horniness and the happiness make meeting new women much more successful.

4. Metta or loving-kindness meditation. I'm sure I will roast in the Hell of Boiling Oil for this, but this Buddhist based meditation is pretty amazing for inducing a sense of relaxation and peace which does wonders for one's vibe. You can find the detailed method explained here: http://www.contemplativemind.org/practic...-kindness, but the gist of it is that you spend some time forgiving yourself and wishing the best for yourself and then do the same for others. My personal experence with this is that it makes me a whole lot more approachable.

5. Induced extraversion. Which is a clever way of saying get out of your own head and marvel at the wonders around you. I try to do this whenever I am out and, whenever I can remember, when I am interacting with anyone. It's based on another meditation practice, this time from the Burmese Theravada Buddhist tradition, called Noting.

Simply put, you pay attention to your sensory experience and try to note as many things as you can. For example, you are in a coffee shop, you notice the scent of coffee and you meantally note "coffee". Perhaps as you focus on your sense of smell, you notice other scents and you mentally note "cinnamon", "sugar", "boiling milk". You do the same with your other senses, perhaps noting all of the cakes, pastries, desserts and other treats at the counter. You can do the same with the barista, noticing the details of her uniform, the name on her nametag, the colour of her eyes, the shape of her eyebrows, etc.

It sounds complicated, but its pretty easy when you get the hang of it. The result is that your internal chatter becomes silent, you are much more engaged with the world, you are much more relaxed and open, and it has a phenomenal impact on your interactions with anyone you meet.

6. Better living through chemistry. If it is legal where you are and you know what you are doing some of the indica strains of cannabis, low dose psilocybin, a small amount of salvia divinorum all help create a sense of mental freedom and emotional wellbeing that carry over to interesting conversation with interesting people (as long as you take measures to not get stuck in your head

What about you? How do you improve your vibe to improve your interactions?

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I tend to be aware of my breathing when I am out. I find that your breathing dictates many other things. When I allow myself to breath deeper I am more relaxed. Aside from that, perspective shifts can be very effective.

Instead of thinking of "picking up" women, I think of it as "meeting" women. Which is what it should be. You're not trying to get anything from them at first. Simply just trading words and having fun learning about someone new. Only after you find them to be interesting does that change.

Instead of going out to be entertained, I try to cultivate a sense of excitement and joy about my life and instead seek to share those feelings with my friends. To cherish sharing what I already have with people I care about is where I derive my enjoyment from going out with them.

Magnesium and zinc before bed definitely have improved not only my health, but also my wellbeing. Intermittent fasting as well has given me much more energy.

Nice list definitely agree with 1,2 and 3.

In fact when it comes to the sun,as well as what you mentioned, girls wear less...sometimes much less. The effect this has on me is i end up finding women attractive thst i ordinarily wouldn't. Many 5s or 6s get upgraded to 7-8!!

I love British summers. In fact I live it when there's just a hint of sun when girls decide it's time for the short shorts, crop tops and flip flops! That really gets me in the vibe!

Also because of the glare of the sun it almost forces a smile out of everyone which naturally makes people more approachable including yourself.

To translate: Do healthy things with your life. Healthy people are more likely to be happy. Happiness is a great vibe. Everyone wants to be around awesome. Great thoughts man!

(06-20-2016 11:55 AM)Alphonse Wrote:  6. Better living through chemistry. If it is legal where you are and you know what you are doing some of the indica strains of cannabis, low dose psilocybin, a small amount of salvia divinorum all help create a sense of mental freedom and emotional wellbeing that carry over to interesting conversation with interesting people (as long as you take measures to not get stuck in your head

Why indica strains? I think you can accomplish what you are saying with all types of cannabis. Have you tried one with a more balanced cannabanoid structure? I think this is what nature intended cannabis to be like. Here in Denver the high CBD strains and mixed CBD/THC strains are really taking off. I hope the rest of the world can experience these soon. A high cbd sativa grow in organic goodness free of pesticides/fungicides is nothing, and I mean nothing, like the drugs you can buy off a dealer in most countries or here just a few years ago.

Best way to improve vibe is to not be a slave to it ie not resist it.

What makes you think you're always meant to be on?

If you see a nice girl go approach her anyway... say your usual opener and then have fun with the fact you are tired, can't think of something to say or you're tired... etc.

As long as you're not a social retard then you'll realise that truth and realness trumps fake and forced everytime.

PS the best way to improve your vibe is to have fun with other human beings.

(06-21-2016 9:41 AM)SuperJoy Wrote:  Why indica strains? I think you can accomplish what you are saying with all types of cannabis. Have you tried one with a more balanced cannabanoid structure? I think this is what nature intended cannabis to be like. Here in Denver the high CBD strains and mixed CBD/THC strains are really taking off. I hope the rest of the world can experience these soon. A high cbd sativa grow in organic goodness free of pesticides/fungicides is nothing, and I mean nothing, like the drugs you can buy off a dealer in most countries or here just a few years ago.

You likely have access to a much wider selection of strains than I do. Here we can get indica, sativa or skunk. Indica I find the most natural feeling, sativa I find way too stimulating. I'd love to try one of the high CBD strains in the future.

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it's free, but I've noticed my vibe and even productivity was much better after using it. Women seem to be able to pick up on this stuff much better than guys but the iois I got from just ASC alone where on the level of Scent of Eros gel. Not in your face horniness like DP but more like "hey whos this guy" which isn't a huge advantage, but an advantage none the less and its helped me in other areas.

I'm on stage 2 now of am6 and I'm starting to see more stares from women and respect from men. I just came back from my doctor and the nurse was unusually shy around me and the doctor who's in his 40s and is usually 100% serious business was more joking around and being buddy-buddy with me compared to other patients. That's the stuff I generally see with something like IG so it's slowly moving up the mone latter

I will add once you are comfortable in your own skin, people are comfortable around you. You are a magnet.

Be. here. now. and Know thyself.

Those who help themselves first are positioned to better help others. Happy people are magnets and so are negative adrenaline and drama addicts.

Decide who you want to be and who you want to attract.

Plenty of assholes are visibly successful and plenty of nice folks get screwed. The only guarantee is you pursued the path that was inside you and you were honest with it.

The most magnetic and sexy people are those who have squared with who they are and mastering self-mastery.

Plenty of folks are superficially sexy and successful. What matters is you. Start with the end in mind and act accordingly.

Bottom line, people who pursue their own interests truly are truly interesting. Interesting people have good vibes. People who repress their needs and don't look into themselves are mediocre and often try to make up for this with tokens of success. They maybe accepted but they are not compelling. They don't have the vibe.

You know the vibes when you have been around the vibe. Think about why that person has the vibe...

You can split these methods into two categories:

1. Activites that you do before going out to socialize that put you in a good mood.

2. Activites to do when you're out socializing and find yourself too "stuck in your head" so-to-speak. These are activities that force you to take action in some way and stop analyzing.

For people who are already used to whatever social activity they're engaging in, there's likely no need for these things as the enjoyment of socializing comes from socializing itself. But some of us need that extra push to get us out there and out of our heads and get that metaphorical social ball rolling. No shame in that.

I'd like to add:

• Dressing up and cleaning yourself before going out. Dressing about 10% better than the average person at whatever event I'm going to does a lot for your confidence. And having a routine where you shower, cut your nails, trim any extra hairs, floss, brush your teeth, have gum in your pocket, put on deodorant and in essence just erradicate anything that someone might see as unclean.
• Brainstorm. When I get uncentered I ask myself something in similar to... "What are the top 5 things I could do right now that are at least as much fun as what I'm doing now?" I don't move an inch or do anything else until I've answered the question to myself fully. I really flesh out each idea and make it as real as possible. And even if people want to talk to me I tell them that I'll be with them in a minute and I keep going until I've raised ten fingers.
  

When I masturbate the day before, I find that mones dont hit as well. Placebo? Maybe. However its hard to ignore this pattern given consistency of it.

Taking Zinc in the morning as well as sun exposure (without sunscreen) does magnify the effects.