New Guy
10-07-2018 6:16 PM
Hi everyone.
I've been aware of pheromones for years, but never used them. I am here gathering information for my first purchase.
I have been interested in scent in general for a long time, and have a bit of experience with essential oils. I'm also very interested in influence, social and relationship dynamics, andI'm a hypnotist.
Pheromones are, of course, a bit of an investment to get into. It would be great if some of the experienced members here could help me narrow down what I should look into for my specific situation.
I have read the advice for newbs, and I understand what it says about taking everything into account, not expecting it to be a simple magic bullet, as well as starting with a social.
For me, I'm not really looking to meet people or mingle. I already am very sociable and I'm not looking to meet new women. I have a girlfriend who I live with, and I want to tailor the usage to get better results at home.
Background: I'm about to turn 41, she's 24. We've lived together for about a year and a half. She's already very affectionate, in a cute, cozy, familiar sort of way, but not very sexual. This is why I don't want comfort builders; we already have enough of that. My goal is to have less cuddliness and more sexiness.
I'd like to use pheromones to enhance the sexual, unpredictable, alluring, mysterious, alpha impression, which tends to fade into non-seductive, cuddly familiarity when living together.
Further info which may help: she's Mexican, but doesn't respond to what many Mexican women generally do. She's not into the "machista" type, and likes things like vintage clothing, old rock music, old horror movies, and is friends with gay white people.
I'm not that type at all, hence the attraction from the beginning rather than ever having gone through a friendship hanging out phase. It was very passionate from the first date, and she moved every step of the relationship along as I just let her think it was her idea, but since relocating together, the sexuality has greatly calmed down in favor of what I mentioned above.
Thanks in advance for helping me to tailor what I should be looking into. I realize nobody can say for sure as it works differently with different body chemistry.
Also, genetically, I'm from a Mediterranean Jewish family if that helps. Tall, dark, thin, hairy type.
(This post was last modified: 10-07-2018 6:18 PM by rond.)
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