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Rolling with style
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blitz
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RE: Rolling with style
10-04-2015 6:18 PM
Ok took it to 4 different places today, the first was a starbucks then walmart. This is a diverse part of town with a damn near 25% split among the 4 major ethnic groups (Caucasian/Black/Hispanic/Asian) and a good number of Arab and Indian families.
Indian/Arab/Hispanic/Caucasian men treat you with respect, they are friendly and not intimidated but clearly feel that you are above them in the social pecking order. Maybe not "alpha" but more like this guy is cool so I should like him. Your demeanor will determine if they view you as alpha or beta but even when you try to be beta they still hold a lot of respect for you. I purposely stepped in front of guys and then said "oh excuse me" and backed away with beta body language and the responses were along the lines of "oh no its fine, it's crowded here on the weekends it's not your fault".
Black men and women do not seem to be affected at all, with black women it may even be negative because I will usually get some attention but with style I get absolutely nothing. It almost feels like an OD and i'm ghosting. With black men it kind of felt like ghosting until I spoke to them then it was as if I was wearing nothing.
Caucasian women like this mix and it makes a very good first impression right off the bat, then 5-15 seconds in their body language shifts to more open and they get closer. Even when you're just standing there and not even acknowledging them after 5-15 seconds they seem to hover a little closer and remove any barriers like shopping carts, purses, or whatever else may be blocking a direct path from you to them. This is the opposite of when I have on intimidating alpha blends where they may take a step back or adjust their positioning so that they have something in between you and them.
Asian men don't seem to be affected much like black men they will ignore me until I reach out to them but then it's like i'm wearing nothing, Asian women may slightly be affected but it's not attraction. It feels like a fast lane to the friend zone with Asian women.
Hispanic women feels just like black women, it may be negative and while I would usually get some attention it feels a ghosting OD. I went to a Hispanic grocery store and I may as well have been invisible to the women but the men were respectful.
(This post was last modified: 10-04-2015 6:18 PM by blitz.)
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