Research has shown that when women cry it makes them less sexually attractive to men.

Posted on Thu, 06 Jan 2011 19:33 -0800 at http://bigpondnews.com/articles/OddSpot/...61353.html

This I believe

It to my effective haha..

"ess sexually attractive to men"
Huh? WTF?
It makes then RUN!

I don't need some scientist to tell me this lol.

Nothing for me then seeing worse then seeing a woman cry knowing I can't do shit about it. It makes me feel very uncomfortable. I was always the lending of last resort to female friends and the models at a small agency I own a piece of.

Once women know you can't handle them crying that's when they fucking own your ass if you are the type that always tries to fix things. This lead me to being used many times. It also lead to the women fucking up even worse knowing i was the safety net and would bail them out when shit hit the fan.

I was a smuck. Lesson learned! Now I just put on the poker face, and offer emotional support instead of cash. The bank of as3 is closed.

When I feel sorry for a woman it's an instant bonner killer.

This is not news to any woman who's ever cried to kill the mood. LOL. Joking, I have never done this. But seriously you can tell a lot about a man by how they treat you when you cry.

(04-06-2012 4:51 AM)as33156 Wrote:  Nothing for me then seeing worse then seeing a woman cry knowing I can't do shit about it. It makes me feel very uncomfortable. I was always the lending of last resort to female friends and the models at a small agency I own a piece of.

Once women know you can't handle them crying that's when they fucking own your ass if you are the type that always tries to fix things. This lead me to being used many times. It also lead to the women fucking up even worse knowing i was the safety net and would bail them out when shit hit the fan.

I was a smuck. Lesson learned! Now I just put on the poker face, and offer emotional support instead of cash. The bank of as3 is closed.

When I feel sorry for a woman it's an instant bonner killer.

Absolute, AS. You have now entered the nice guy/friend zone. Not a place to be. Maybe the extremely odd visitor's pass, yet I do not wish to be a life time member.

Yes, but here's what you don't know, a woman is going to cry around you eventually no matter what. If you are building trust and intimacy, it's gonna happen. It may even be a shit test. How you react matters, and it doesn't mean if you act in a supportive way they are going to use it against you forever, that's just a pile of bullshit. Of course there is a population of asshole women out there that may but you need to be looking for other signs of fucktardedness from her and get the hell out if she is that type. A woman who cries in front of you is at her worst, she just wants to be accepted. A little comforting goes a long ass way in making her trust you. I have dumped guys on the spot for how they reacted to me crying. Literally never talked to them again. And conversely if you cry along with me, I'll dump your ass too. The key is being somewhat sensitive but not overly so.

(04-06-2012 12:15 PM)halo0073 Wrote:  Yes, but here's what you don't know, a woman is going to cry around you eventually no matter what. If you are building trust and intimacy, it's gonna happen. It may even be a shit test. How you react matters, and it doesn't mean if you act in a supportive way they are going to use it against you forever, that's just a pile of bullshit. Of course there is a population of asshole women out there that may but you need to be looking for other signs of fucktardedness from her and get the hell out if she is that type. A woman who cries in front of you is at her worst, she just wants to be accepted. A little comforting goes a long ass way in making her trust you. I have dumped guys on the spot for how they reacted to me crying. Literally never talked to them again. And conversely if you cry along with me, I'll dump your ass too. The key is being somewhat sensitive but not overly so.

Your social circle is a lot more humanistic then mines. Mines is dog eat dog. If you aren't using someone you are being used. Being nice is being weak. Anything goes to either stay in the 1% or join the 1%.

When in Rome...

Does crying always express sorrow? I am not sure that this is the case.

Probably different kinds of men have different paths to follow. Those with an innately strong frame, but who aren't too attuned, perhaps need to learn to develop the caring side of themselves. But I would venture that this is not the majority of men on this forum. Those who are innately very sensitive may need to learn to see things at times with a frontal-lobe distancing, because there certainly are enough people that will exploit one's sensitivity - consciously or otherwise - to try to play on one's feelings like a fiddle.