One of the hardest things I find about about women is finding out if they are attracted romantically/want to date ....or just DTF.I mostly do day game so, going direct would be difficult unless I get clear signs like she has FWBs or something along the lines.Have been missing out a lot of opportunities lately because not wanting to offend or worse...hang around same social circles so, have to thread lightly.How exactly you screen if DTF or want to date.

Could be wrong, but shouldnt you, the man, decide?

This is where experience and reading body language of a girl comes into play. So i dont think there is a 'one size fits all' tactic for this.
But no matter what, just rely on your instincts and go for the kill (kino, kissing, grabbing, third base, whatever) if you think the girl is giving you the go signal. If she reciprocates, u bang her. If not, just go along. The fear of offending her or fear of others perception will never get you anywhere, so just say '' fuck it''.
You will never score the shots you never take.

(02-26-2019 5:51 AM)Ladiesman Wrote:  This is where experience and reading body language of a girl comes into play. So i dont think there is a 'one size fits all' tactic for this.
But no matter what, just rely on your instincts and go for the kill (kino, kissing, grabbing, third base, whatever) if you think the girl is giving you the go signal. If she reciprocates, u bang her. If not, just go along. The fear of offending her or fear of others perception will never get you anywhere, so just say '' fuck it''.
You will never score the shots you never take.

Hm kind of thinking fuck it lately...I have been walking in eggshells lately.I don't have problem banging just don't like drama.lol Some girls let me bang then expect me to be their bf forever.

(02-26-2019 8:38 AM)jb20 Wrote:  Some girls let me bang then expect me to be their bf forever.

Why let her make those decisions?

1. Consent is very different than gate-keeping

2. No reason to respond to unreasonable expectations from others. That's their problem.

(02-26-2019 8:45 AM)theLaw Wrote:  2. No reason to respond to unreasonable expectations from others. That's their problem.

Especially because some women don't listen when a guy says up front that he doesn't want a relationship. When a guy is honest then it's her responsibility to manage her own expectations.

All good advice thanks guys