Buying whores will not help ones self esteem. Men shouldn't feel they EARNED the sex. The women did it for the cash. End of story. When the cash was gone , so were they. This method also results in a DULL brain since the outcome is basically guaranteed.

(09-19-2018 12:23 PM)dsouza Wrote:  Buying whores will not help ones self esteem. Men shouldn't feel they EARNED the sex. The women did it for the cash. End of story. When the cash was gone , so were they. This method also results in a DULL brain since the outcome is basically guaranteed.

I see where you are coming from but I think that my friend finds self esteem in the fact that he has freedom when others are tied down. I think he also takes pride in the fact that he sleeps with many different women and that he can sleep with any ethnicity (Asian, Latina, Black or Caucasian woman). He can also choose the age group 18/-21, 22-27.28-35....ect. I think that he feels esteem in earning and saving the money to be able to live this type of lifestyle.

When the cash is gone yes the women are gone. But my first friend with the clothes also complains about the trials and tribulations of the pickup. If you like a girl and she doesn't like you you're screwed. If the dating process doesn't go the way she wants it to you're screwed. If she meets someone else that she likes better you're screwed.

(09-19-2018 12:54 PM)Paradox Wrote:  I see where you are coming from but I think that my friend finds self esteem in the fact that he has freedom when others are tied down. I think he also takes pride in the fact that he sleeps with many different women and that he can sleep with any ethnicity (Asian, Latina, Black or Caucasian woman). He can also choose the age group 18/-21, 22-27.28-35....ect. I think that he feels esteem in earning and saving the money to be able to live this type of lifestyle.

That part!

(09-19-2018 10:11 AM)Paradox Wrote:  I am talking to one girl and she seems to respond very well to me being a jerk. I am also talking to another woman who hates when I act/talk like a jerk.

You're talking about "dating" behaviour, not to be confused with quick-closing.

99.9% of men have adopted dating behaviour to get laid, when in fact, it's completely unnecessary. Just find the right girl in the proper context, then close........that's it. Everything else is a just playing a woman's game.

The PUA Jerk philosophy imo is basically just being disagreeable, not an asshole. Asshole game is binary; either she f*cks you or slaps you!

Now ask yourself: how many guys have you known who play the game with those stakes (fortune favors the bold)?

(09-19-2018 3:05 PM)theLaw Wrote:  Just find the right girl in the proper context, then close........that's it.

In your opinion what is the best way for a quick close? Maybe quick make-out followed by asking her to come home?

(09-19-2018 3:08 PM)metaltree Wrote:  In your opinion what is the best way for a quick close? Maybe quick make-out followed by asking her to come home?

1. Eye contact (she needs to know that you're in charge and not afraid of her)

2. Commands (just tell her what to do)

3. Criticism/Compliment (criticisms to lower her value and compliments to raise it)

Just cycling through these with the basic Engage+Escalate+Isolate outline is the fastest way beyond fame and wealth as far as I can tell.

Personally, I'm not a fan of public make-outs, and neither are most women. You're basically asking her to lower her value with no risk to your own, so it's not a fair fight imo. Also, I never ask, but only tell her what to do. If she's not interested, then just move on. She is an adult after all. Cheers!

(09-19-2018 3:08 PM)metaltree Wrote:  In your opinion what is the best way for a quick close? Maybe quick make-out followed by asking her to come home?

Quick close( from meeting stranger to the dirty deed)
for me has always been when didnt care about outcome
and like Law said “being an asshole”

Never had to ask for quickclose.

Quickest most memorable close:

When younger at pool party, night winding down,
2 hotties show up end of night, most guests start
leaving or continued party indoors with my roomate.
Ends up me and them in pool and me being
an asshole which led to gropin in the pool.
Deviants that they were, they said lets take a drive.
So while one gal driving, other gal climbs
into front seat straddling me, deep kisses
and caresses while driver is groping us both.
then she proceeds to remove drivers bikini
and suckin some good ole titty.
Somehow we didnt end up as a crash fatality.
Eventually she pulled over on some back
dirt road and things got real interesting.

So act like asshole, dont ask. Assume.
Assume you both want same thing.
You lead or even let them lead but
dont ask.

(09-19-2018 3:08 PM)metaltree Wrote:  In your opinion what is the best way for a quick close? Maybe quick make-out followed by asking her to come home?

Tell her that she's very sweet but it's a pity that she's probably not your type. Then change the conversation to something engaging, not related to relationships. Whilst with her, triangulate unless you are talking, then look into her left eye.

I own two pairs of jeans. My last 3 LTRs I dated and seduced whilst wearing flip flops and shorts. I spend no more than 300€ each year on clothes and shoes combined. I've never spent my money on whores. I get more sex than I can handle. I LOVE living in Spain!

(09-19-2018 4:38 PM)LoveInSpain Wrote:  I own two pairs of jeans. My last 3 LTRs I dated and seduced whilst wearing flip flops and shorts. I spend no more than 300€ each year on clothes and shoes combined. I've never spent my money on whores. I get more sex than I can handle. I LOVE living in Spain!

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