(09-22-2014 11:36 PM)tdctdc Wrote: how significant is the fallout?, what mix did you expose her to mostly?
Are you planning to do anything with that fallout? hehe ;]
I first exposed her to mostly Cohesion + Connections
(+/- Xist at the beginning) and kept at that combo when I could. It was her first day working in my dept., and I made sure to introduce myself and we had some basic talking that day. 2cd day effects were obviously imprinted as she was treating me as one of her best friends already and wishing I didn't have to leave my shift so early. week or two in she starts telling me she has "cramps" and asks if I can help her find some medicine, so I do and we just go down one of the isles together before i had to leave my shift. She slings her arm around me like buddies as she playfully jokes around me.
Next day I ask her if the medicine helped her cramps, she was like "no, it didn't help at all. Only when you were around the cramps were gone. " You wouldn't believe my face I had that moment lol.
Months down she still seems to have interest, but it isn't like the first months we met. I asked her out to the movies the other week with her sister and one of my friends. That's as far as I've gotten with escalating, I'm just lazy. I've been recently using Taboo and removal of Connections around her at work. While it is a tiny bit more fun, I feel like I've lost her attention that I use to have maybe with the whole Connections Cohesion combo and I feel like Connections is what made the spark in the first place. I only stopped with the combo to 1.) Change/Keep things interesting from her perspective & 2.) This Coh+Con combo really neutralizes me. What I mean by that is that I'm not as outgoing or fun acting when I wear it. It really dampens my mood to where I just have a lack of emotions, but apparently it has the opposite effects on girls around me as it should. And it seems like that effects with well worth using the combo for. And overall where I'm at the Coh+Con combo may not be as fun as other combos or blends but it sure is hell potent for bonding as it's proved to me already over these months of using it. As such I also want to get my hands on another bottle of Xist and see if that helped any as I only had a little bit left when first meeting her back then. We barely work together anymore since like a month ago, maybe once or twice a week now.
Just a few days ago I had gone shopping in my own dept the same time she was working. The customer she was serving finished and came up to me and said "You know, she (my co-worker) only wanted to serve you :winkieface: " Both of use chuckled a bit.
For the time being the fallout still seems to be there, but is likely to stop if I don't escalate soon. And I do kind of like her haha.
If you have access to journals on XS forums, you can read my full fallout development with this girl I wrote some weeks back:
https://discoverxs.com/forum/mens-journa...#post15710
Also this is only 1 fallout of the 2+ more-minor fallouts I have going at work with the same combo.