Hi, I have a question about this. first I would please like to say no judgement on this matter. The situation is more nuanced than you might think.

there is a man I recently rediscovered my attraction for. we used to be friends and even had some brief romantic (non sexual) contact years ago. but we both started dating other people. Recently we reconnected. he got out of a bad relationship so he is in a (basically his own words) low maintenance long distance relationship with some girl he met on holiday a few months back and almost never sees.

we were watching a movie at my place recently and I realized how nice it would be to snuggle up, so I just went for it. he reciprocated and we've had a couple movie snuggle sessions since, but nothing sexual.

I really like this but the LDR thing is really hanging over us and stopping us from even fully enjoying just cuddling. last night I decided to speed things up by getting out my Achar, but it didn't affect him whatsoever..the only other stuff I have is glace (not appropriate for this situation) and some stuff from Love Potion. I haven't used Pheromones in a while.

was the achar potentially a bad choice, with its light cops? To make clear again the physical "scent" or "mark" of his partner isn't an issue as he only sees her once every several months. I may make another Love Potion order soon so if anyone has any tips, thanks. most of my collection is actually less sexual since that's what I'm going for but I might need a little extra OOMPH to push him in the right direction.

again, please no judging this situation. his LDR is not my responsibility and I am not going to outright ask that he terminate it or pressure him in any way.

Why don't you get a nice bottle of wine and make him a nice diner. Yes he is married and a trapped fish but perhaps easy prey.

^^^ fishdude

K. No judging, no problem. I have Achar and I use it mainly with my guy because it makes him pleasant and thoughtful when we're together so unless the 2 of you are already close and intimate, it may just have back fired and had him behaving more "respectfully" toward you than what you were hoping for.

He's in a LTD that doesn't seem (from your/his description) terribly important - but important enough to not necessarily want do something he may feel would be morally wrong - perhaps by either one of you...ie, doesn't want to lead you on if he isn't serious. Or he's just comfortable being in a LDR that doesn't require him to invest much time or energy - which could be why he's not jumping at a chance to fire things up beyond what you two have already had - to much to speculate w/o asking...

You CAN seduce him, I have no doubt. Pheromones may help you get the romp you're looking for but if he's lazy or just undecided about relationships in general make sure your expectations are realistic. If you're good with being his fun time (or technically him being yours ^_~) while he makes up his mind then it's all cool.

You already have a rapport with him, you can also snuggle up close and personal. If he's squeamish, relationship wise, the things I suggest could make him nervous around you...if however he's receptive to taking things to the next level then adding these things to what you already have going could be beneficial

So I'm thinking you know each other well enough to know how to stoke his fires, is he into an assertive alpha vibe? If you made the first move would he let you - and then follow suit? The power of suggestion and invitation can be subtle - or not. Achar's a bit too tame for that and Glace - def not so much. Love Potion has a blend called Sexpionage you can get samples of in a floral or foodie scent. That is a wonderfully naughty mix that you could work to your advantage. Blatant invitation is another good one that you can trial in a scent that will make you smell like something that should be eaten and enjoyed...XS has a couple, Tease or Temptress that haven't failed me yet.

We're all different, so what worked for me may not be your cup of tea, but I believe - if he's receptive - that if you make your invitation clear enough and he doesn't make a move then it'll be up to you if you're enjoying the thrill of the chase or want to go after someone who is of a mutual mind. Happy hunting!

Here's my 2 cents. In December I introduce my daughter's god mother to pheromones. And she bought charme and alpha Donna. From what she reported back to me this guy is falling all over himself to tend to her every need. She notices this most with alpha Donna. She wears it around him all the time and sprayed it on his pillows before leaving and now he is checking in all the time and recently asked her if she would consider having a child with him. She didn't get much from charme but charme works well for my wife. I won't get her alpha Donna anytime soon as I see the effects it can have on men. You can give that a shot and report back. It's a highly sexual product but it appears to be changing his behaviour towards her drastically. Before she had to track him down and now he is tracking her down and being more considerable.

Sent from my SGH-I747M using Tapatalk