The other night, I was at a restaraunt, and when I first made eye contact with our waitress, it was like a switch flipped in my head. Now I'm not the "love at first sight" type. ( never have believed in it ) but this girl is different. The first time I looked into her eyes I fell in love. Idk whether it is love or lust...... but I got her phone number and we occasional talk and she tx's me most mornings when I'm on my way to work. The problem is I met her while working outof town, and we live at least 4 hours away.....I thought that last week was my final week here so I stopped and said goodbye before I left. But a change in scheduling landed me in her backyard for a couple more days, but I felt it was better to not let her know I am here....hell I don't even know if she feels the same about me, all I know is that every time I close my eyes I see her smiling at me...sorry for my happy ramblings, I just feel that maybe I am reading more into this situation than I should. and wanted to ramble.

I usually don't allow women to mess with me like this....in fact, she is the first woman I can't break away from the thought of.....almost like my unicorn.

Maybe just send her a message saying "Hey, what you up to?" and leave it at that. If you get a positive response, try to push a little further. If neutral, reply in the same manner, but perhaps with a slightly higher energy level. Now if you get a negative reaction.... Well, I think that should be self explanatory.

Mirroring the behavior or actions of another typically can bring fast rapport. But try not to overthink the situation.

Getting her to like me isn't the issue. We already talk to eachother. I chose to not tell her I'm in town for a couple more days because she lives so far away and now knowing Im here will be easier for her in the end. I was drinking last night and got thinking about her and felt like I needed to post, when it probably wasn't necessary.

Speaking from my own experience...have had those moments several times. Those are the ones you remember. But truly I believe if she were the "one" you wouldn't let her pass by. I usually almost always have those instant chemistry starting with just a look things. One exception is my current BF of ten years who I couldn't stand when I first met him. Took 2 years for us to begin dating. And are you sure you aren't telling her you are still there just to protect HER feelings? Not telling you to tell her you are there, just something about that statement caught me off guard. I promise you there will be another "one" or "four" or 14. Hopefully you don't think I am slighting your feelings because that is not my intention, just want to reassure you that there will be more out there for you.

I'm dating a woman that I think could be "the one". It's was awkward at first sight for me and love at first sight for her. Then I thought about it and realized this is the woman i have always been complaining about I couldn't find.

Turns out I made the right decision to get to know her. When I finish my contract in this city I will live about 2.5hrs away from her. We talked about this and we decided would rotate who comes to visit who every weekend.

I value her so much that I didn't like the ideal of this special lady driving that far alone to be with me what if something were to happen to her on the way i would be crushed.

Decided I would be the one driving to see or picking her up to come spend time with me in my city.

Maybe you should have that discussion with the girl you have it in for. just lay it all on the line. Communication is key. You don't want to have regret about not seeing what could have been if you let her go that easy.