(02-23-2015 3:21 PM)dsouza Wrote:  Secondly, if you're not the best fuck , you can always get great at oral sex. There's no reason to make fucking the main course if its not your strong suit. Many women go crazy over guys that can please them with their tongues , and don't care too much if the intercourse last 5 min, 45 min or 2 hrs etc as long as they are satisfied one way or another. To some women sex is an emotional bond and whether they even orgasm is irrelevant.. To them sex is intimacy.

This. So much. When I get with a woman, I give her oral. It's the bridge between foreplay and penetration. And I do it until she gets off, or is so close that she demands that I stop and actually get inside her. So she's got a hell of a "head" start either way, it usually doesn't matter if I only last 5 minutes, or it's one of those days I can keep going forever. Sometimes after I get off, I go down on her until she gets off again.

When it comes to lasting a long time, my personal trick is just using the right condoms. Some guys hate using them because they "can't feel anything" but that's part of the reason I like them. I've been in long term relationships where we switched to some other form of contraception and it's a lot harder to last when you feel everything. Some of those ultra-thin super intensity stimulating lubricant rubbers are the worst idea if you're trying not to climax too quickly. But on that note, there's some Trojans with a desensitizing lube that are the devil. I tried them once and I was completely numb for like an hour. It's like how your mouth feels after getting an injection at the dentist. I was completely useless and that put an end to our sexcapades for the night.

(05-28-2015 1:57 PM)Cornfed Wrote:  When it comes to lasting a long time, my personal trick is just using the right condoms. Some guys hate using them because they "can't feel anything" but that's part of the reason I like them. I've been in long term relationships where we switched to some other form of contraception and it's a lot harder to last when you feel everything. Some of those ultra-thin super intensity stimulating lubricant rubbers are the worst idea if you're trying not to climax too quickly. But on that note, there's some Trojans with a desensitizing lube that are the devil. I tried them once and I was completely numb for like an hour. It's like how your mouth feels after getting an injection at the dentist. I was completely useless and that put an end to our sexcapades for the night.

Lol, awesome, me too. Be careful who you give them to. I had no idea once. When I was in college I grabbed some condoms from a neighbor so I could bang the RA a building over. We had been seeing each other for a month or so, wasnt new. I lasted all f'ing night. Was Horrible for both of us I think.

I second almost everything on here. The two that Ive found worked the best for me are kegal exercises, especially during foreplay. Just keep pumping them. Next, I strongly second learning how to make a woman cum without your dick. Once I mastered oral and the full body squirting orgasm for women a whole new world opened up. If they are laying there in a heap of wet orgasmic relaxation they don't care what you do to them. Even if its for less than ten seconds.