Okay, so I don't seek out attention in groups, but I don't run from it anymore, either, so I'm making some progress! However, when I do get attention in group settings, it's generally from the men, and because of it, the women in the group tend to either get competitive with me, or act jealous and catty. Or I'll get friendliness from the women, and the men pretty much ignore me.

I've got a couple of group events coming up where I'd like to be a little more "in the spotlight" but without the jealousy or too much competition from the gals I'll be with (a little friendly competition's fine, but "friendly" isn't what I'm currently getting!). I already have Glace for social, but though it seems to enhance my other products, it just doesn't seem to do much on its own for me--and even with other products, it tends to get others to tell me their opinions about everything, but not so much care about my opinion, iykwim.

I'm also on a limited budget, so I can't just order several things and try them out (as much as I'd LOVE to!). It would be really nice if people wanted to pay for my drinks at one of the events, but I'm not necessarily expecting that result!

But I do want to order something that will maybe give me a little boost of ... I don't know... awe? popularity? Something to help me get a little more noticed without being blatantly sexual. You know, a "VIP" vibe or something like that. Where people want to be around me, and maybe want to know what I think.

Hmmm... now that I read over what I've written, I feel like I've seen a description of a product somewhere that would fit, but I can't recall where I read it!

Any ideas? Thanks for any suggestions you can offer!

Oh, and if it helps, I'm married and in my late 30's.

This one sounds like an exact match, lol...

Love Potion Popularity Potion - description from site:

The purpose of Popularity Potion is to help give off an air of 'movie star-esque' charisma. Can assist one in becoming the center of attention, elevating the mood of those around you, and is specially tempered to try to reduce feelings of jealousy that can arise when someone else is in the spotlight.

This one could be a runner up...

Love Potion Open Windows - description from site:

Unscented Pheromone Blend for both Women and Men. Created by our Phero Guru, Ail - Here's what she says about this blend: "A heavily Alpha-Androstenol based pheromone blend for people who want to lift themselves at their down times, and to lift others around them, too. An all-round social blend which is a winner in giving you the general 'feel-good, look good' magnetic factor that attractive people exude naturally, making people want to talk to and get close to you at every opportunity."

I have both of these. PP does give an "it" factor and it's always a tons of fun and OW has proven A LOT of fun in social settings as well. But for what you described I'd say try PP

Food for thought anyway

Hey Raven9653,

Quote:I've got a couple of group events coming up where I'd like to be a little more "in the spotlight" but without the jealousy or too much competition from the gals I'll be with (a little friendly competition's fine, but "friendly" isn't what I'm currently getting!). I already have Glace for social, but though it seems to enhance my other products, it just doesn't seem to do much on its own for me--and even with other products, it tends to get others to tell me their opinions about everything, but not so much care about my opinion, iykwim.

From your description it sounds like you need a respect product more then attention getting product. Wanted to post some products you could use, but then realized you posted in the women's area. Not that I have something against women, but the products I have in mind are designed for men. I don't have a clue if they would work for women. I'll post them anyway:

Wolf by liquid alchemy labs: Respect with a bit of social tossed in there. A very popular product within the men population of the forum. Also I just checked their website and they have something called She-wolf. I believe it's the female version of wolf, but to be sure you better ask the women or email Liquid alchemy labs.

Here's a link: http://www.pheromonesperfumeandcologne.c...Women.html

C4 by hax pheromons: This one is also marketed towards men, but more in a work environment. Website description: "you project the feel of a knowledgeable, trustworthy man with all the right moves. The man every woman wants, and all men want to be. Women will give you their attention and men will give your their respect". I't doesn't have a smell to it, so that is always good

http://www.wingmanpheromones.com/wingman-c4/

Corporativo by Alpha Dream: Alpha dreams's unisex product intended for work related use . I've used it quite a lot and do notice increased respect. I noticed a few of the female members trying this one out and posting their findings.

http://pherotruth.org/Thread-Diary-of-Co...nce?page=6
http://www.alpha-dream.com/Corporativo_F.php


There's also a beta product by pheromone xs called xs 100 (celebrity mix) It's aimed at men, so i don't know if its suited for women. (maybe email SteveO about this) You can read the reviews here: http://pherotruth.org/Thread-Custom-Blen...-gratitude
They also have a women beta called xs102 Beta. Website description: A women's social blend that combines social graces with a touch of dominance and sex appeal.

I hope it helps out. If I was in your shoes, i'd look towards she-wolf (if it's designed to work like wolf but for women) or corporativo since it's unisex. The other products are marketed for men, so i'm not sure if they would work the same for women.

Cheers,

Buzzy

I second popularity potion! Definitely makes you the spotlight without making other women jealous as well.


Super sexy for women works well also and fine with most women, but I've read accounts where some women get catty.

Thank you, NuTrix and Isis! Yes, I think PP was the one I'd read about before--I'm going to order it! And once I get back, I will finally have some free time to update my journal and reviews, too!

Buzzy, I appreciate your ideas, too. She-Wolf is on my "wish list" now! And you actually helped me out with something else that I didn't post about! I think my brother would definitely benefit from something that will boost the respect he gets at work.

Popularity Potion or La Femme Mystere. LFM gets me the most respect.

(04-04-2013 12:58 AM)Buzzy78 Wrote:  Hey Raven9653,


From your description it sounds like you need a respect product more then attention getting product. Wanted to post some products you could use, but then realized you posted in the women's area. Not that I have something against women, but the products I have in mind are designed for men. I don't have a clue if they would work for women. I'll post them anyway:

Wolf by liquid alchemy labs: Respect with a bit of social tossed in there. A very popular product within the men population of the forum. Also I just checked their website and they have something called She-wolf. I believe it's the female version of wolf, but to be sure you better ask the women or email Liquid alchemy labs.

Here's a link: http://www.pheromonesperfumeandcologne.c...Women.html

C4 by hax pheromons: This one is also marketed towards men, but more in a work environment. Website description: "you project the feel of a knowledgeable, trustworthy man with all the right moves. The man every woman wants, and all men want to be. Women will give you their attention and men will give your their respect". I't doesn't have a smell to it, so that is always good

http://www.wingmanpheromones.com/wingman-c4/

Corporativo by Alpha Dream: Alpha dreams's unisex product intended for work related use . I've used it quite a lot and do notice increased respect. I noticed a few of the female members trying this one out and posting their findings.

http://pherotruth.org/Thread-Diary-of-Co...nce?page=6
http://www.alpha-dream.com/Corporativo_F.php


There's also a beta product by pheromone xs called xs 100 (celebrity mix) It's aimed at men, so i don't know if its suited for women. (maybe email SteveO about this) You can read the reviews here: http://pherotruth.org/Thread-Custom-Blen...-gratitude
They also have a women beta called xs102 Beta. Website description: A women's social blend that combines social graces with a touch of dominance and sex appeal.

I hope it helps out. If I was in your shoes, i'd look towards she-wolf (if it's designed to work like wolf but for women) or corporativo since it's unisex. The other products are marketed for men, so i'm not sure if they would work the same for women.

Cheers,

Buzzy

Great suggestions buzzy. She should def read the link to that girl who is having great success with corporativo from alpha dream. I have to probably suggest that based on wha I read in that thread. I myself will eventually get some.

Good luck with your adventures

Just my two scents.....